me and this guy dated for 2 yrs.we both have our flaws,no one's perfect after all.he mentioned marriage, but i wasn't quite ready to settle down.after that, i dumped him over the phone and refused to see him for 5 months.he told everyone that i was "the one" (his parents and friends and mutual friends)and was a wreck,or so i heard from mutual friends.after the 5 months,i decided to see him again.we dated for a bit,but i have this nasty habit of "breaking up" with him whenever i get really pssed during an argument(he's sensitive and would cry).i guess it was my strange way of getting back at him for making me mad or something (we would get back together a day later).so one time i "dumped" him, but this time he refused to get back together.he started a relationship a girl.during this time,i tried my hardest to get him back and realized what i'd lost.after that girl dumped him(lasted a month),he came back to me.now,we don't fight.but i can't help but feeling like 2nd best next to his ex.
2007-01-23 03:19:10 · 6 answers · asked by stelze 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
He would not be with you if he did not want to be. Who knows, he might have broken it off with her to get with you if she hadn't broken up first. Just take it a day at a time and enjoy the ride.
2007-01-23 03:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mary K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You brought all this on yourself. You can only dump a person so may times before they get tired. You've been using the poor guy for your own power trip. Grow up and let him get on with his life
2007-01-23 11:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel like second best. You are first, absolutely.
What you might think about is>>>> Why he has the need to always be with someone.....and whether or not he is with you because he loves you or if hes with you because he needs someone to be with.
2007-01-23 11:24:44 · answer #3 · answered by lynn_k_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling uncomfortable with him, perhaps there is a legitimate reason. There are other fish in the sea. You do not have to subject yourself to pain and hurt in any relationship. Look for someone else, you can do better.
2007-01-23 11:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not second best. He just managed to do something smart, which is to stop letting you mess with him.
2007-01-23 11:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he was getting tired of u hurting him but he still obviously loves you alot b/c he kept coming back
2007-01-23 11:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by fairy_punk07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋