me and this guy dated for 2 yrs.we both have our flaws,no one's perfect after all.he mentioned marriage, but i wasn't quite ready to settle down.after that, i dumped him over the phone and refused to see him for 5 months.he told everyone that i was "the one" (his parents and friends and mutual friends)and was a wreck,or so i heard from mutual friends.after the 5 months,i decided to see him again.we dated for a bit,but i have this nasty habit of "breaking up" with him whenever i get really pssed during an argument(he's sensitive and would cry).i guess it was my strange way of getting back at him for making me mad or something (we would get back together a day later).so one time i "dumped" him, but this time he refused to get back together.he started a relationship a girl.during this time,i tried my hardest to get him back and realized what i'd lost.after that girl dumped him(lasted a month),he came back to me.now,we don't fight.but i can't help but feeling like 2nd best next to his ex.
2007-01-23 03:14:57 · 5 answers · asked by stelze 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are a class A biatch!!!! You are using his feelings for you like a spoiled child and when you don't get your way you throw a tantrum.
2007-01-23 04:25:54 · answer #1 · answered by King Midas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is now that you have him back don't break up with him just because you are mad. People will only take so much from someone over a period of time. So I would try to control that when if another argument comes about.
About feeling second best. It should pass.
2007-01-23 11:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've always been number one to him. That's why he's back with you. What you did to him in the past was very wrong. I hope you have changed and realize that if he's still with you after all that, he more than likely loves you with all his heart. I don't blame him from taking a break from you when he did. You played with his heart like it was a toy. Hopefully you guys have learned to deal with your issues and disagreements without arguing and fighting about them like children.
2007-01-23 11:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give your relationship time|
Then things will fall into the right place and you will know that you are #1 with him.
It just requires a little patience as you wait for that to happen.
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2007-01-23 11:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't
honestly you pushed him into getting her. theres no point in feeling like 2nd best cos i don't think he was with her for who she was but just so that he could be in another relationship.
and considering he's stayed with you despite your dumping him every 10 minutes, and considering he's back with you after being with someone else....you're number one
2007-01-23 11:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by Layla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋