i find my self attracted to a girl that around the house and last week while my mother was away we slept together but i was never attracted to women befor and i like men very much but this girl make me want her very bad. i am lost anyone can tell me what should i do??
2007-01-23 03:06:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
okay people that not helping i am not into the naming what i am i am confused i need advice from some how been there maybe he or she can understand what i am in now and since then she try to talk to me and i am ignoring her help
2007-01-23 03:27:55 · update #1
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2007-01-23 03:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Kedar 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would continue to do things around the house as you normally would. See what this girl says to you, or how she acts around you.
It's not so uncommon for straight women to be curious about sex with women. You would be surprised how many straight women want to be with other women.
Depending on how things go over the next week or so, you could end up pursuing a bit of a relationship with this girl. The more you talk to her and spend time with her, your feelings and what you think you should be doing will become more clear. Don't be afraid!
2007-01-23 14:21:18 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasnt until I was about 19 when I discovered that I had this attraction to this girl. Time passes and it didnt go away, It got stronger... I have always been told, to take chances, try things out. If you are attracted to her, them maybe you should take it a little further, You will know if you like it or not. No one can tell you what to do, or what its like.
Be like Nike.......... Just Do It!
2007-01-23 15:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest i dont think the people on yahoo answeres will know if you are gay or bi or whatever just spend time thinking about if you are really attracted to men or women or both thats what works the best to just give yourself time
2007-01-23 16:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jake M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not a lesbian which means that you are only interested in your same gender, but you could be bisexual which means you will do it with either gender. don't worry, nobody here with think anything less of you for it. If this girl is over 18 and you're under 18 yrs of age then she could be guilty of statutory rape if you actually did engage in sexual activities. As you seem to be a minor then you are not mature enough to give consent to sex.
2007-01-23 11:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this could happen to anyone....I fell in love with my best friend...but im a lez....no but i really think you could like someone of the same sex and not be gay.....do you like anyone else that is a girl?
maybe you should take some time to find yourself and wait for an answer....
2007-01-23 11:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by adriboho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i myself am a lesbian. but if this was your first experience dont label yourself just yet. you may just be attracted to this one girl in general. its not because shes a girl. maybe shes just very sexual or just a great person in general. never look at the people you fall for and think o my god im a girl shes a girl im gay! just look at them and think how wonderful they are girl or guy. male or femal you should be attracted to them for the person they are not what sex they are. you cant help who your attracted to.
2007-01-23 11:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by Pauline Q 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're sexually attracted to both men and women, you may be bi. Don't get too hung up on labels - it means your odds of getting a date this weekend just doubled!
2007-01-23 11:16:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your fellings. If you're attracted to her then go with it. Don't deny your feelings and be miserable. Accept your attractions and learn to make the most of life.
2007-01-23 13:24:00 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking what should you do? Nothing let time go by and your head will get clearer. Things will take care of themselves and you won't need anybody's help to tell you what you are.
2007-01-23 12:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a straight guy but I found myself attracted to beautiful trannies or shemales. I don't know how to explain it either.
2007-01-23 11:19:47 · answer #11 · answered by Erico S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋