i had $130.00 of my boyfriends money in my wallet nowhere to be found. all my credit cards personal items are gone to. its been reported. he is not worried about my stuff only his. is he selfish? i feel bad. i have helped him with never no thank yous. im upset my belongings are gone as well. i had money missing too. i just paid his electric/gas $800.00 no this has nothing to do with my wallet gone. however, if something of yours is missing thats your problem or they he & his mom blame their dog for eating it. noway!!! so is he a tad selfish? i would be mad as well. but, what can you do?
2007-01-23 02:53:35 · 7 answers · asked by greg b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, did you even offer to pay him back when you got the money??
i mean, if i lost my wallet and it had someone else's money in it, then i would come clean, apologize and promise to pay them back as soon as i had the money.
you took responsibility for that money when you took posession of it. you lose it, you pay him back...simple.
if you borrowed a friend's shirt and spilled red wine on it, woudln't you offer to buy her a new shirt?? you woudn't just hand it back and say "sorry" can you believe my new pants are ruined and expect her to sympathize with you about your pants when you don't care about her shirt.....
also, why are you paying his bills?? i never paid for bf's stuff like that unless we lived together. that needs to stop unless you live there and that's your share of bills.
take care.
2007-01-23 03:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is why you keep only your stuff.....that way you don't worry about it.....pay him back because that is the right thing to do, seeing that you are responsible for your wallet.
Then never carry his stuff again.....Hard lesson to learn. Everyone is selfish in some form.....His is Money.......
2007-01-23 10:58:13 · answer #2 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you I would pay him back. and that will take care of that. Your boyfriend is selfish, you may want to find another boyfriend. I hope you have a great day!
2007-01-23 11:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you will be paying him back as soon as you can, Make it in a timely manner also. He sounds selfish, Maybe after you pay him back dump him too!
2007-01-23 11:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's selfish...pay him back as you can afford it then find a more caring, concerned sympathetic b-friend. What a louse he is.
2007-01-23 10:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel but i didn't have anybody money missing but mines tell your boyfriend to chill out because u didn't do intently u already feel bad so leave u alone
2007-01-23 11:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by lilsis2576 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a bit selfish
2007-01-23 10:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋