This guy I'm seeing is always playing games with me, I mean I know that he loves me but he's always teasing me about being with him and he tries to say that everybody wants him, he is really conceited but I think it's because he's insecure. Should I break it off with him, I do have huge feelings for him though.? He almost always wants to look better than me, and I'm a girl.
2007-01-23 02:50:57 · 16 answers · asked by Maji 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are on a right track. You have a good point. What the hell he is competing with looks with a girl....is he freakin gay? Or his head is too big? Maybe you should break it off with him if he is tryin to put you down, make feel insecure, make you feel jealous, etc. Men are there for us to compliment us, make us feel good, build out self esteem (or if not then at least leave it along and not try to lower it). He is lost or got issues, but like I said leave him alone. And if you really want to be a rockstar then break up with to make him feel like he is not even all that and he daymn sure is NOT ALL THAT. Make sure you pin point that and it will blow his head like a bubble. I have faith in you that you can get this done 100% effective.
2007-01-23 02:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about a vacation instead of breaking it off? Sometimes a little vacation is just what the doctor ordered. If he really loves you and wants to be with you he will wait for you but before you do take that little vacation explain to him just what you've done here and let him think about it through the vacation. Who knows, It might work or at the least help.
2007-01-23 02:58:07 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either break up with him or talk to him about his behavior. Maybe he is jealous of you and has to try to out do you for his own insecurity? If you think it will work between the two of you then talk to him about how you feel and if he's not worth he effort then ditch the guy.
2007-01-23 02:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would tell him the next time he says all the girls want him, "Then you go get ALL the girls, cuz I 've had enough of ya."
But that's just me.
He sounds a little vain for my likin...I would kick him to the curb. I can understand you have strong feelings but do you want to spend the rest of your life living like this???
There are NICE guys out there who want to give you the respect you deserve.
Good Luck
2007-01-23 02:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 02:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
answer simple he's really insecure of him self listen if you have feelings for him then stay unless he's beating you or something express your thouughts on this to him that you don't like him being that way, how old is he cuz it might make a difference as to y,
2007-01-23 05:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOSH...any man that is competing with his girl to look better than she does or spends more time in the mirror than his girl has SERIOUS issues. i understand wanting to look nice but...you do need to break it off. no man is worth playing games. if he wants to play games...send him to the play ground.
2007-01-23 02:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him, and he loves you things will work themselves out. not saying that it wont take effort. let him know that you are happy to have him and that you do love him, and he should be happy to have u. i understand, to have a man want to look better than u is so annoying, but if you two love each other you guys need to work it out.
2007-01-23 03:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Rygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should break off because if he is like that he probably will always be like that in your relationship.
2007-01-23 02:54:33 · answer #9 · answered by scottsmith20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should end it-just because hes always like this. people dont often change the way they are. so you should say goodbye even though its going to be hard. *********=major turnoff
2007-01-23 03:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by xsecretxowishesx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋