I stop answering calls from my ex boyfriend and he has been calling all day every day for the past two weeks, stoping by my house and trying to talk to me. We just got out of a two year relationship and he only wants to be almost like "friends with benifits" .
2007-01-23 01:48:29 · 15 answers · asked by Never-mizz-judged 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you don't want that with him, then tell him you're not interested and to leave you alone.
2007-01-23 01:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the real question is what do you want to do? do you want to be a friend with benefits? do you still want to be with him because it sounds like you do. why would you be asking that question in the first place if you did not still want to be with him. its seems to me he broke up with you and now he doesn't want to be your girlfriend, he just want to hit it every now and then. and if another girl approaches him, he can always say im single. so to be truthful, he has it good both ways. the single life and somebody he can tap when know one else is available. do you really want to be that kind of girl? somebody he just tap every now and then. don't sell yourself short. you are worth more than that. as a man, he just want some booty. im just keeping it real.lol
2007-01-23 02:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by black pharoahs of egypt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that perhaps he really needs to see that you have moved on and are just not interested in him. Tell him straight out that you are "done", that you have no reason to carry on a relationship with him. Friends with benefits are more benefitted if they understand that, when it's over, it's over.
2007-01-23 01:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by mymohum1969 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself whether you are up for that or not. Depends what made you break up in the first place but personally I think you should ignore him. Any man who knows your worth and respects you wouldnt allow a "benefits" friendship.
2007-01-23 01:53:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eww, no wonder you broke up with him. Tell him to back off and that if he doesn't get the hint soon you'll call the cops. What this jerk is doing is called Harassment! You don't need this in your life!
2007-01-23 01:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't want him to contact you, tell him that...change your phone number to an unlisted number and if he continues to show up at your house, tell him that you will get a restraining order if he doesn't stop.....eventually he will give up or you will need to follow through with the order of protection....good luck
2007-01-23 01:52:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seriously have a heart to heart talk with this guy as he clearly doesn't take 'no' for an answer....If all else fails...take a restraining order...I seriously forsee a stalker!!!
2007-01-23 01:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by singirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The friendship would be allright as long as he doesn't expect the benifits along with it, which he takes as sex. I'd tell him to leave me alone!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-23 01:52:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he had his test run ,now it is time to put a ring on your finger or move on .(If that is what you want ) and set a date .
You were right to leave him he might wake up and smell the coffee now .
If it's not to late .
2007-01-23 03:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your number hunni, and if he comes to your house again tell him, if you wanted to be fook buddies you wouldnt have finnished with him, if that fails.....restraining order xxxx
2007-01-23 01:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by law 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋