2007-01-23 01:47:35 · 22 answers · asked by kulabay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because the wife doesn't explain it to him, she just expects him to read her mind.
2007-01-23 01:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a two facet matter. It has got good face and bad face. Being jealous a little, most of time is good, but be careful, I said a little. Because mild jealousy does not blind you. It may even open up your eyes to watch out whats happening around you and what you can do to get in your husband heart again. In this case you need to find a solution. you may try to improve the weaknesses area of your life and improve them to provide a better way of living together. I mean in this case you are searching the roots of problems inside yourself and will eventually overcome the problem. However, the other side of the coin is tough JEALOUSY. This kind of jealousy is destructive and will ruin your life if you don't care about it. it will blind your eyes and shot your ears to the reality. In reality most of men do not mean to make their wife angry through pay attention to the other women. But if a man would have a simple talk or laugh with another woman in a workplace or a party; and be perceived by women as a sign of ignorance, this may cause her to get jealous quickly. In this case she will start to create imaginations that are not true. Then she blames her man and others. Therefore, she starts to see the roots of problem outside herself(husband and the others). this will go nowehre. you may go and find some readings about the cause and effects of jealousy first. if it helps then I will give some mor comments.
2007-01-23 10:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by asimp2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B'cos u wife always jelous n show your face in front of everybody.The only main point u wife jelous is your husband talking another women.Why not u think about how we the men feel b 4 u say we never understand u !!!wife.
2007-01-25 21:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by gen2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Two people in a loving, committed, honest, real marriage don't get jealous, they're secure enough to know that their spouse loves, wants and needs only them.
Jealousy is a form of insecurity, and if your husband doesn't understand why you're jealous, it's because he's secure enough in your marriage and in your love that he doesn't feel that it should be an issue, and he's right.
Jealousy has no place in a marriage.
I've been married for 25 years, we've had ups and downs, but the one thing we've never had to deal with, is jealousy, because we trust each other, if you don't have trust, you can't have a good marriage, trust is the foundation of any good relationship. If two people love and trust each other, the way a man and wife are supposed to, outside influences don't matter. The only people who can wreck a marriage are the two people in the marriage, when someone is jealous, they're telling their spouse they don't trust them. I hate to repeat myself, but jealousy has no place in any marriage, it's not a sign of love, it's a sign of insecurity and mistrust, and without trust, the marriage can't last.
2007-01-23 09:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by Angeleyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because jealousy is a sign of insecurity, it makes a man and a woman feel as though they are not trusted. Is he cheating on you? Does he come home smelling of another woman? Does he stay out late? Does he have a secret life? Why are you jealous? If he's looking at other women so be it, so long as he doesn't insult you with rude and hurtful statements. I told my husband he could get his appetite on the street just come home for dinner. I often pointed out women I though he would enjoy looking at. I had playboy centerfolds hanging in our bedroom, and we watched porn together. Nothing wrong with that. The more freedom he had to be a "MAN" the more rewards I got in the lovemaking department. wink wink.... :)
2007-01-23 10:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women when they feel jealosy, don't tell their husbands why they are jealous, they clam up, and how is any husband supposed to know how his wife feels if she doesn't say anything, the same can go with husbands not saying anything to their wives too.
But men and women think differently so without talking it's very difficult to understand what anyone is thinking.
2007-01-23 09:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men feel that when we get jealous, we are possessive though actually, we are not. God programmed to be the hunter and roam while a woman's job was to have and care for the children. Women aren't programmed to "roam," but we crave a man to love and care for us. It is natural to get jealous when this man is noticing another woman. I wish men did understand though.
2007-01-23 10:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Husbands that don't give any reason to their wives to be jealous of them, are flattered to a certain extent when their wives express their jealousy even though it is not justified. Husbands resent jealousy when this becomes an unreasonable daily persistence.
2007-01-23 09:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by markos m 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they are simply jelous, thats why and when they get jelous the get blank
2007-01-23 09:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not explaining it to him, and as for the lady saying jealousy shouldn't be in a marriage, i agree but disagree, the reason being if you weren't a little jealous you wouldn't be human, it is a human response. I don't think it's healthy to be possesive in a relationship, but if they wasn't a little jealous i wouldn't think were in love. Oh well my thought anyway.
2007-01-23 10:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by sweetemtation_123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They understand they just try and ignore it, because if they gave into your feelings, it would make them feel all the more guilty.
Most men pretend their not jealous, but give them a reason to be and they are.
2007-01-23 09:52:06 · answer #11 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋