I have always been in drama filled and emotionally abusive relationships and finally I found a guy who is wonderful. He is great, we get along great, laugh together, cry together and love spending time with one another. But the only thing that boggles my mind is that I am not jealous of him what so ever. All of my past relationships I was very jealous and very insecure of the man leaving me. Now that I am not I feel like there is something missing in our relationship. Is this normal to feel this way? I want to spend my life with this guy but people say that you "just know" if he is the one.....And without these jealousy feelings everything seems so different and I dont know whether or not he is the one. During the infatuation stage I always thought he was. Now that everything is just comforting I feel like I dont know anymore....I want to KNOW that he is the one.....
2007-01-23 01:47:14 · 7 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not being jealous is a great sign,,,,,,it means that you feel totally sceure and at ease with him....think about how many fights start over jealousy?..... My wife and I rarely have jealousy issues and it makes every social function we attend so enjoyable....niether of us have to watch what we say or do, we can just be ourselves.
2007-01-23 01:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't bad. It means you have matured and finally figured out what you want in a man. It seems you have found it. Don't sabotage it. Some people are addicted to drama whather they ralise it or not. Jealousy is SUCH a wasted emotion. It does stem from insecurity. It sounds as if you are secure with yourself, that is a good thing. Embrace it and enjoy it!
2007-01-23 09:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not up to us to decide. Your Heart, will always be the best to answer that. It sounds like, it's telling you that this is the one. But, you're gonna have to stop, long enough. and let The Old Ticker,tell you "The Rest Of The Story". Good Luck!
2007-01-23 09:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not normal for most women but i am not jealous either it only means that you feel confident in your self and that he helps make you feel that way and that is good you feel as if there is no threats there and that is a very good sign in a relationship. you KNOW you can trust him and this might work
2007-01-23 09:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, jeolousy is a sin. And the fact that you are not jealous is a sign of maturity. Unless he has given you any reason not to trust him, I think you need to accept the fact that he is the one for you.
2007-01-23 09:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you don't feel jealous because you actually love this man. and why should you be jealous just because he has has a slightly better life but if you don't feel insecure maybe it is for the best
2007-01-23 09:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by sarah o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that is great :) its ashame we can not all be like it . im the same but i used to get really jeolous with my ex i was terrible ! its better not getting like it saves so many arguments and problems :) x
2007-01-23 09:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋