2007-01-23 01:37:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Never with my current boyfriend,with my ex I usually just held in the tears and kept wishing he'd hurry up:)
2007-01-23 01:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by J♥R♥R 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hello,
Yes it's ok to do that, it adds to the excitement of what you are doing, and quietly, it may even help you to please the one you are with, all this leads to the "quote" If you can't be with the one you love, then, love the one you're with, for me personally, I am always with the one I am totally devoted to, and I am certain she would say the same, soft lights and gentle, easy music, and at least 3 hours, after eating togther, can lead to some fairly hectic loving, and some lovely sleep together afterwards, what also helps is that you can see each others faces whilst you are loving, this goes a long way to help you in not shouting or whispering someone elses name at some quite hot moments.
I also think that if you think of others while you are loving your regular partner / wife, that it's time you refreshed your relationships, by introducing the fact that you like to think of another whilst you are loving the one you are usually, or always with, if you can grasp what I am getting at, me? oh well I have been happily wed for 42 years, and would openly admit to my Susan that I do sometimes think of others, not sure what she would say or do, but I am certain she wouldn't throw me off her to the bedroom floor, as she might be thinking of someone else too, so that;s ok then Huh?? have fun, but be nice to each other. bye for now...... Tony M
2007-01-23 02:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by tony m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
'Making love' sounds a bit strong Neil ! I'd guess your fairly young ? Yes I've done it and would imagine lots of others have too. I think once you've heard about the idea it would be hard not to give it a go. Good clean fun basically.
2007-01-23 01:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Andy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all do it mate. Don't be put off by the liars who say no. They are just too damn ashamed to admit it. There's nothing wrong with it. I sometimes am thinking of a chic I just saw in a movie or something. If you know you love your partner, there's nothing wrong.
2007-01-23 03:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! I have done in other relationships, which ultimately contributed to me leaving said partner and pursuing a relationship with the one I was thinking of. This has happened twice... only one of these relationships worked out.
2007-01-23 01:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by tigerfly 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
erm no...i guess it depends on who youre thinking about, a celebrity you may be able to get away with as its purely fantasy but a mate is a big no no. If you are walk away!! my bloke is to good in bed to make me even imagine hes someone else lol
2007-01-23 01:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by tinkypinkles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oooooooo, its called fantisizing and if ur doin that whilst ur in the process of sex then u shouldnt be with ur partner cos ur just using him, possibly without u even realising
2007-01-23 01:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have done it in the past before, but then i feel guilty for my thoughts...and then i want to cuddle a lot afterwards..
2007-01-23 01:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by cutegirlin_tn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to think about other women when making love to the wife.
Now I just think about the wife when im making love to other women!
2007-01-23 01:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think everyone does eventually. When you eat the same thing over and over, you want variety, even if you have to imagine.
2007-01-23 01:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋