I have always been in drama filled and emotionally abusive relationships and finally I found a guy who is wonderful. He is great, we get along great, laugh together, cry together and love spending time with one another. But the only thing that boggles my mind is that I am not jealous of him what so ever. All of my past relationships I was very jealous and very insecure of the man leaving me. Now that I am not I feel like there is something missing in our relationship. Is this normal to feel this way? I want to spend my life with this guy but people say that you "just know" if he is the one.....And without these jealousy feelings everything seems so different and I dont know whether or not he is the one. During the infatuation stage I always thought he was. Now that everything is just comforting I feel like I dont know anymore....I want to KNOW that he is the one.....
2007-01-23 01:25:43 · 3 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Obviously you like drama; if he isn't being mean to you, then you're not interested. My advice is that you leave this nice guy alone; he'll never generate enough BS to make you happy.
2007-01-23 01:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by Creampoof737 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are growing up. You do not need to jealous if you are loved and love and trust in return. Jealousy is just a waste of time and energy. It breeds mistrust and hate and anger...and it will ruin the best of relationships...
If you want to spend your life with this man and he is comforting and you love him...you know. You know he is the one, your just not listening to yourself...it is as if you are waiting for the drama and hurt to start...patterns of past relationships...let go of the past. Listen to your heart and live well. Be happy.
2007-01-23 01:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a good thing that you are not jealous. Jealously is terrible and only ruins relationships. It means you trust him and you trust yourself with him. Sounds like you cuaght a good one.
2007-01-23 01:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by JR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋