Married 20 years, now divorced, my ex wife who's 40 left me for a 17 year old lad a year ago, my son is going to stay with her after a year without seeing her, I encouraged him to do so, she is currently hanging around with my sons mates male and female none of which are over 19. she shows no interest in older men.
2007-01-23 01:25:40 · 10 answers · asked by LUCKY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your son has to make his own mind up ....bout his mum
i have the same kinda situation my ex 47 is going out with a 24 yr old and my daughter 16 dont get on with her as the age is so close
my daughter has made her own mind up on how she feels
caused a bit of friction between me and ex he thinks im pulling her strings telling her what to say
if he is grown up enough he will walk away but even if he dont the desision is his to make
as long as he knows you will be there for him thats all you can do
if you need to chat mail me
xx
2007-01-23 03:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that your son would be at risk but l would be extremely concerned for her 17 yr old boyfriend. I am sure it is not legal for your ex wife to be sleeping with such a young guy. She obviously has a lot of growing up to do. Your poor son how does he cope with such an immature mother ?? I really feel for him and his mates for that matter.
2007-01-23 09:36:33 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds well dodgy!!!
I doubt he's at risk from his own mother by she doesn't sound very stable, talk to your son, see how he feels about the situation, maybe he feels bit weirdered out by it all too,
2007-01-23 15:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by keeley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17?? And she didn't go to jail?? Your exwife is sick and she needs help. I wouldn't let your son or his friends over there. Is there someone you can talk to about this?? It's not right?? Hate to be a b*tch but I would call all the parents and make them aware of her behavior.
2007-01-23 09:35:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like your ex wife is going thru a midlife crisis. Your son will not be please how she is acting but he needs to find these things out for himself. Just be there for him.
2007-01-23 09:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, so she's a borderline female pedophile,that's is unusual but not rare these days.
2007-01-23 11:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by EveretteDavid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and i think the lady need some serious help
2007-01-23 09:47:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you question is what?. do you think she's after her own son, or you think her friends will be?
2007-01-23 09:29:40 · answer #8 · answered by mike-from-spain 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god.. thats terrible, im sure he wont stay too long
2007-01-23 09:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by missnikid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a situation!!!!
2007-01-23 09:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by prince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋