They didnt change there feelings about leaving but things happened that caused them to stay and not leave.
2007-01-23 01:18:09 · 13 answers · asked by scout1567 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, the marriage is doomed. If you want to leave and feel you can't this will only exasperate the problem. The marriage is over in every way but living conditions.
2007-01-23 01:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Of course the marriage is doomed. How in the world could you think it would work if you still feel like leaving? It doesn't make sense. Just because the circumstances have changed it doesn't mean that your feelings have too. If you don't love your significant other than you must leave. Otherwise you are going to turn bitter and hateful and everyone will suffer for it. Do yourself a favor and just leave. No love, no marriage. Thank you.
2007-01-23 01:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
depends on how hard the "TWO" of them work toward there goal's a marriage can only be worked out between the two that are married they have to work together on things no marriage is "doomed" it may be poison by outside influence but a marriage is a job that both have to give 100% to not just one sided I feel that people that leave a marriage once will always leave a marriage because if you cant work out a problem here then what makes you think you can work out a problem any where.... Good luck to you or whom ever marriage you speak of..
2007-01-23 01:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone has the need to leave but can't for whatever reason, the marriage seems to be pretty much over. Unless they decide they want to work things out - go to counseling, the marriage still stands a chance. Its up to the married couple on how things will work.
2007-01-23 01:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to answer without more facts. BUT, if this person stayed out of obligation, or some other reason other then "love", yes this marriage is doomed. Love is the foundation on which one builds. Not guilt, obligation, pity, remorse, children, family. Love and only strong love will support a relationship. Without love you can not build trust, commitment, respect, understanding, or even a bond. Sorry :( Even a friendship takes a certain amount of love.
2007-01-23 01:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe if they wanted to leave the marriage and than couldn't, that nothing has changed the way they feel, except the circumstances, so eventually they will find a way to leave, so it is best not to get too comfortable in this relationship, as it's only a matter of time.
2007-01-23 01:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reason like a child or children, this is normally the reason that is given. With a little auditing they would enjoy life more and stop saying the reason I am still with you is because of the kid or kids
2007-01-23 01:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by Tonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUNDS LIKE IT WAS ALREADY DOOMED WHEN YOU DECIDED TO LEAVE THE FIRST TIME.
IF THE "CIRCUMSTANCES" YOU MENTIONED HAPPENS TO BE A CHILD, THEN I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND STAYING FOR THAT. BUT IT WON'T MEAN YOU'LL BE HAPPY.
ONLY YOU WILL BE ABLE TO MAKE THAT DECISION ON WHAT TO DO. BECAUSE YOU'LL BE THE ONE TO HAVE TO LIVE WITH THE DECISION.
2007-01-23 01:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by sweetbabykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are back together they might as well try to work on their marraige already. Put this time to good use. Just show eachother respect meanwhile. You never know what can happen. Miracles do accur.
2007-01-23 01:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy in the marriage end it now before you waste your whole life.
2007-01-23 04:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋