I had a friend. We had a difference in opinion about something. Then she mails me to let me know that my friendship is worthless. Before all of this happened we were really close, I knew when she was in danger etc. without her letting me know. I knew if she needed money without asking etc. We mailed each other every day and talked for hours on weekends. A long time ago I had a crush on her but nothing came of it. Tough she knew about it. But before the disagreement I got the feeling that she might also have more feelings for me than she wanted to admit. She still asks my other friends about me and why I didn't come over to visit with them. I don't understand. Why? Should I forget about our friendship or should I fight? Please help.
2007-01-23 01:03:33 · 9 answers · asked by PROPHET 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The argument was about religion.
2007-01-23 01:14:42 · update #1
I tried going over there and talking to her but she doesn't open the door. I've mailed I'm sorry and send sms's too. I miss my friend. But one can only take so much humiliation.
2007-01-23 01:20:46 · update #2
If you really want the relationship to be repaired, then go for it. You've tried to make your case, but at this point she's unwilling or unable to be open to what you have to say. I think you should back off for awhile and give her a chance to settle down. She knows you want to continue the relationship, and the fact that she's asking other friends about you is a good sign. Wait a few weeks and try to contact her again via email or phone, how ever you feel more comfortable, and perhaps she'll respond. Good luck.
2007-01-23 01:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously religion and politics are always the most heated arguements and many times are the reason behind wars.
I say move above the petty arguement and fight to keep your friendship. You shouldnt let your different views get in the way of a long lasting/caring friendship.
2007-01-23 09:24:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to be friends with her, then take the first step and meet with her (real life, no emails or phone calls), and tell her that you are sorry and you would like to ask her forgiveness.
The first step of growing up is admitting when you are wrong and fixing it.
2007-01-23 09:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your friendship was actually a lesbian relationship, why did you post this question in this category?
Either way, if you have any regard for your friend you'll respect her wishes and give her the space she requires. Give her up.
2007-01-23 09:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should fight to keep ur friendship... don't let a simple argument ruin something u have had for years...
2007-01-23 09:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by buddahbump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still want to save this friend ship then don't let things go that easy. Show her you still care . I would just wait and see whats going on with her. good luck....
2007-01-23 12:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think that she likes you as more than just a friend then that might explain why she's avoiding you. what id do is tell her that you want to be friends but you don't want to have to keep apologising so if she still wants to be friends then she can tell you.
2007-01-23 10:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by always_4gotten <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it ironic that you don't include what you guys had a disagreemnet about.
2007-01-23 09:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by huckleberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight
2007-01-23 11:10:04 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋