I AM HOMOPHOBIC - YET I'M GAY. I WAS BORN STRAIGHT - BUT I WAS CURIOUS AND HAD GAY SEX AND LIKED IT SO I HAVE CHOSEN THE GAY LIFESTYLE. SHOULD I GO BACK TO BEING STRAIGHT?
2007-01-23 00:41:59 · 15 answers · asked by homophobic_queer_1 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wow! you have issues.
2007-01-23 01:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I am not getting is how can you be a homophobic gay? Kindly make up your mind if your homophobic then you can't be very gay so try being straight again, and if you don't like it then get over hating your ( as you're putting it) chosen lifestyle.
2007-01-23 08:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously homophobic and gay? Tell me something. Has any gay person ever done any harm to you, in recent years or early childhood? That could explain why you are homophobic.
But you need not to be, because gays and lesbians are terrific people. Some of my best friends are very gay and very lesbians, or bisexuals, and we get along really well and they respect the fact that I am straight.
Your homophobia while being gay could be easily interpreted as molestation as a child. If I am not mistaken, and this is what happened to you, you need to get psychological help (no offense intended of course), because you need to overcome what happened in the past.
Best wishes. Don't wait to get the trauma treated ok.
2007-01-23 09:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What many people here fail to realize, or maybe just havent been educated to the fact, is that some of the greatest homophobic people are actually gay.
I had, had being hes dead now, a homophobic bisexual stepfather. He was deathly afraid of homosexuals. So you can just imagine his reaction when I came out of the closet. I can explain it in detail at another time.
My biggest problem I have to the question is the word choice. People dont pick or choose who they are attracted to. Though there are men who just think with their cock and the only attraction for them is the attraction of the possibility of getting their rocks off.
2007-01-23 09:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is more likely that you are just homophobic and ask questions like this to try to cause trouble. If you start looking at the real reasons you are doing this (Ie: you have homosexual feelings and don't know how to deal with them, so you try to insult gays to make yourself feel better) you will be a much happier person.
2007-01-23 08:59:57 · answer #5 · answered by Beth B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your choice. Homosexuality is constructed, you will have to work on reconstructing yourself.
The Formula For Producing A Homosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way:
A Predisposition
Toward Homosexuality
Plus
That First
Homosexual Experience
Multiplied By
Pleasurable and Positive
Homosexual Thoughts
To Which Is Added
More Homosexual
Experiences
Multiplied By
More Pleasurable
Thoughts
---------------------------
A Homosexual
2007-01-26 11:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A homophobic gay?????? Wow, you are extremely sought after by droves of counselor/shrinks who are wanting to write papers for journal publications...they'd love to have you as a guinea pig.
I'd say that you are a person that is just trying to find someplace to 'fit in' and don't really know what you want...how old are you? How many 'encounters' have you had?
2007-01-23 08:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
In addition I bet you hate musicals but the only songs you know all the words to are show tunes. What evidence can you offer that you were born straight?
2007-01-23 09:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by J J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either one or the other. Maybe you need to be straight again.
2007-01-23 08:57:59 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play with yourself in private.
2007-01-23 09:35:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋