in his Dad's apartment (bedroom.) He is 10 yrs old and came out waving the undies on his finger, saying & teasing her, "look what I found." Fiance said nothing in defense or explanation, SisInLaw was MORTIFIED, she left and spent the rest of evening crying. She had strict upbringing in which premarital sex is considered very bad. This was like a slap in her face (she has two boys and worries about them finding out.) She wants to know if she over-reacted, and if Fiance should have said/done something more to help her....she ended up having to yank her undies from his son's hands.
2007-01-23 00:31:33 · 4 answers · asked by reddevilbloodymary 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like she needs to ease up on herself a bit and start communicating more with her fiancee. Sex shouldn't be a source of shame.
2007-01-23 02:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by doomed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off she has no reason to be mortified. Sex is natural and if she was so worried they should not have been around for the stepson to find.
She overreated and what could the fiance have truly done???
2007-01-23 09:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Fiance should have stepped in to lessen the embarrasment felt by sister-in-law, but Sister-in law should not beat her self up over what is only normal. (not the bit about the 10 year old swinging panties about!)
2007-01-23 09:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont blame her. Fiance should had stepped in and handled it.
IT hurt her badly.
She better think twice about marrying this man
If this is important to her.
Boys will be boys! they like to tease.
If she is doing something she is uncomfortable with! Stop it
you got to be true to yourself
2007-01-23 09:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by tennessee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋