Hey my name is james, i want to get my girlfriend a really nice pressent for valentines day , but she dosent know what she wants, the only thing i know she wants is to get better ( She has derpression ) she has been on about spirtual retreat but i dont know nothing about them,
so what do you think i should get it? what do girls love?
2007-01-23 00:26:30 · 35 answers · asked by Unknown girl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
This is very difficult. If you can think of something she has said she would like in the past, That is really the best suggestion I can offer.
---That Cheeky Lad
2007-01-23 07:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression is a hard thing to deal with..
But if your wanting to do something a lil special, and don't mind putting some work into it.
Find a couple friends she likes to shop with, do some talking, and plan a scavenger hunt!
Let her friends start out the morning by taking her to breakfast, and giving her the first clue.
(in advance go to next location and drop off clue)
Send her to have a manicure, or pedicure.... possibly pick up some wine or champagne at the local liquer store, drop by a adult book store to pick up something fun, then by the time she makes it to her final destination. Be it a room, or hotel. Surprise her by having balloons, and roses, and rose petal's across the bed.
When she arrive's, give her some pampering time by giving her a "red neck spa" ...lol Candles around the tub, the champagne or wine that she brought. Help her slip in the tub, and give her all your attention while you massage, and sweet talk.
Sometimes a lil attention from that special person in your life... helps focus on new things!
Hope it's not to much work...and more of a fun challenge. YOU hae enough time to plan it all out!
Good Luck!!
2007-01-23 01:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by Lo Lo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have any luck with the retreat perhaps a mixed bunch of roses:
Red - Love, Romance, Beauty, Passion, I love you; Desire, Courage; Respect
Red (Dark or Burgundy) - Unconscious beauty
Red -Withered - I would rather die, Our love is over
White - Purity, Youth, Pure Love, Virginal, Innocence and purity, I am worthy of you, You're heavenly
Pink - Happiness, Appreciation, Thankfulness, Grace, Gentle Love, Please believe me
Dark Pink - Gratitude, Thank You
Yellow - Joy, Gladness, Friendship, Delight, Platonic Love, Jealousy, Freedom
Yellow with Red Tip - Falling in Love
Orange - Fascination, Desire, Passion, Enthusiasm
Red and White - Two colors; Passionate Purity, Unity
Peach - Sincerity, Gratitude, Appreciation, Modesty, Admiration, Sympathy
Lavender - Love at first sight, Enchantment
Black - Death, Farewell
Blue - Impossible, Unattainable, Mystery
Red Rosebud - Symbol of Purity and Loveliness
White Rosebud - Girlhood, Youth
Thornless Rose - "Love at First Sight"
Single Rose - Simplicity
Two Roses - An engagement or coming marriage
Leaves - Symbol of hope
Roses-Sent every month - Beauty ever new
Hope this helps - good luck
2007-01-23 00:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bristol_Gal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not get some really pretty paper, cut it into strips, write on each strip a reason why you love your girlfriend or what makes her special, just all the nice things you love about her, put them all in a nice box tied up with a pretty ribbon and every time she feels low she can open the box and read all the lovely things you say about her to help her to cheer up, good luck.
2007-01-24 01:00:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well done mate for thinking ahead. You know her more than we do so you must have a fairly good idea what she would like. Enjoy Valentines together. Doesn't matter what ye do. Few tips. Book a night away in a hotel or country cottage for both of ye. Treat her with her favourite thing even it's just her favourite bar of chocolate!! Go for a nice long walk together and chat. Let her chat about anything! Do whatever you feel is right. You'll know and good luck !!
2007-01-23 00:40:36 · answer #5 · answered by sonj75 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
How about a spa day? Nothing relaxes me more than a day in the spa and you can go with her. A great bonding time for you both as you move around in cosy dressing gowns having saunas, massages etc together. It will also help relax your girlfriend which is important with depression
2007-01-23 00:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by clairelou_lane 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford it, buy the two of you a weekend away in a lovely hotel with a great spa in a lovely location. Pricey but she would enjoy it.
Although it depends on why she's depressed, she may get a guilt trip from this too ...
She's a lucky girl, though. Not many chaps like you around!
2007-01-23 00:36:04 · answer #7 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey james i think you should make her a scrap book filled with photos and things to reminder her of all the good things in her life, maybe she could use it on the days she feels really down to lift her sprits a bit- oh and maybe you could leave blank pages at the back and tell her you will do something to fill a page every month! i think she will really appreciate the time effort and support offered by a gift like this i don't think something like chocolates or jewelery will do the trick x good luck and i hope she feels better soon x
2007-01-23 00:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by scuba girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
y not pay 4 her to have a spa break she can get pampered and might help pick her up. even if it is with the girls not u she will thank u 4 it
depression is all in the mind and anyway i am sure you make her happy y not do something together
2007-01-25 08:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by Hayley D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation a few years ago at Christmas. My dad got me the Tiffany's Sterling silver heart braclet with my initals engraved on it. I thought it was the best gift I was ever given. So it's like you have her your heart, and she can wear it always.
I think it is a little more than $150, but I think it is worth it.
2007-01-23 03:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by JenMoo2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋