He comes back in to mylife after 5yrs! We go out togther at weekends he comes round every day he calls all the time he stays overnight at least 4 times a week..Am I wrong to think this is a relationship?
He is seperated from his wife living at his sisters, but at new year he calls new years day says h ewill see me tomorrow, then he doesnt call for 2 days when he does he asks are we still talking I ask why wouldnt we be? I aks where he has been and why he didnt come round tuesday turns out he is back home I say well dont phone me, he says why not I say you dont need me to talk to you have your wife talk to her!
He turns up the following week as if nothing has changed he doesnt stay the night as he said it causes a fight. This is because I said you just used me then to fill the gap and I was just a shag when you needed one he said no I said thats how it looks..
He stayed friday I havent heard from him since what does he expect me to think!!!
2007-01-23 00:18:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He says he doesnt want anything to heavy!
He also says he doesnt want to get involved at home either?
Eh excuse me but didnt you get totally involved when you got married!!!
He says I still love you , I like you but I dont know how!!!
I tell him listen you cant have both, Im not doing an affair or being the bit on te side I dont need to and I will not be second best to someone else!!!
2007-01-23 08:25:38 · update #1
i understand the importance of this man in ur life.
but life is not this easy, that u say i want and u get it.
if u ask me please do not go after him.
look at ur life its beautiful and u have soo many things ahead of u. go for it rather than going for a married man!
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2007-01-23 00:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He’s definitely still got some kind of attachment at home, which is why he has not left the wife entirely. You are right, you don’t deserve this, he knows you love him and he’s just stringing you along in case his marriage doesn’t work. The more you stay, the more heartache you will have to endure.
2007-01-23 08:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by blondedarkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time you move on with your life......he's playing you.....he wants his cake and to eat it too........He has his wife..that's the choice he made.........sounds like he's not interested too much in making that relationship work either tho....don't think he knows what he wants......but Commitment isn't what he's looking for....just a quick romp in the sack and y ou're kicked to the curb again........so MOVE on with Your LIfe* and leave him in the dust*
2007-01-23 08:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is still involved with his wife. Until they are divorced you have to stay away from him.
2007-01-23 08:23:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date married men. Treat yourself with some respect. Jeepers.
2007-01-23 08:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by cassandra 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what to expect of you for allowing this guy to keep coming back. YOU are letting him back into your life.
2007-01-23 08:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his got his cake and his eating it too,get away fast.you deserve better than that
2007-01-23 08:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until he's divorced.
2007-01-23 08:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋