What do you do when you are causing problems for people around you?

Question

To be specific you are the cause of problems in people you care about lives despite having the best of intentions and wanting the best for them.

Answer 1

I try to correct the problem,I don't like to cause anyone any pain.

Answer 2

Ouch. You just hit a nerve with me. I'm a psychology student and I could give you a very scientific answer but I would be hypocritical. I can barely believe the words that come out of my mouth sometimes even though I truly care about the people around me. I will argue a point to the death, just to be right. I am learning for myself, slowly, that low self esteem had a bad effect on how you behave. I'm learnng that a smile can make someone's day and I am learning that swallowing your pride and just getting on with someone or saying a kind word in the place of criticism makes me feel better about myself than being right.

Answer 3

Learn to mind you own business because in the end the only one that will be hurt will be you.
People are here to learn lessons and no one should interfere with those lessons or the karma will come back to you.
Have you asked yourself why you feel such a need to try and interfere ?

Love & Blessings
Milly

Answer 4

You have to talk to them about it, ask THEM for suggestions and perhaps you may find the answer is to excise the ultimate display of your affection for them and get out of their lives. Have the courage though to tell them you are getting out of their lives so they don't have to spend an eternity being worried sick about you.

Answer 5

make em problems disapear into a glass of water.

then drink it

Answer 6

change your behavior...you obviously are doing something wrong...and you dont REALLY care for them if you keep hurting them...

change the way you live now, its bollocks obviously