One day when I visited and he was not at home she invited me inside. His fater is in Gulf for long time. I was just 13 years old. She put my hands on her breast and put her in my pants. She took me over her body and taught me how to have a woman. She said I was better and bigger than her husband. It was all new & fun to me. I was proud too. She took some of my naked pictures also, she called one of her friend and both had fun with me again and again. Now I've got admission in a good collage at Mumbai. She is not letting me go and threatens me that she will send my pictures to my father if I don't visit her every day. What do i do?
2007-01-22 21:32:16 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
If your story is true then after all these years she had been enjoying with you &now she is blackmailing you. This is really very bad on her part but you should not worry, she wont do as she say that will spoil her own reputation which although is zero but still she dare not openly come out in open as any one looking those photos will ask her what she was doing with these photos for the last so many years? How she took these photos? What made her to take such photos? Why she did not show these previously? How she made you to become nude in front of her? As an adult woman she had tried to molest a child of 13years she can be charged for the offence of molestation & punished for it so she cannot come out openly & bring any harm to your reputation now. She knows all these facts & whatever she tells you is just to befool you & keep you near her for her sexual lust. Rests assure no harm will come to you just go & join the Mumbai College.
2007-01-22 23:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would tell my parents AND the authorities what happened. In every country I know an adult having sex with a minor under the age of conscent committed a big deal felony, with Jail time attached, of statutory rape. It doesn't matter if it was concentual or not. Also, having served in the Gulf as a Combat Officer, I know the rapist's husband will be none too pleased. It is the ultimate act of disloyality to the honorable serving spouse, the family, and to nation. It is grounds for divorce anywhere in the world (adultry). This rapist doesn't want you to leave because she gets her thrills in life controling and dominating you. Guilt, shame, blackmail, she is laying them thick. You need to do whatever it takes to get her OUT of your life, so you can have your own back. What she did was child sexual abuse, it may take a some time to fully understand it, but you are not primary the guilty party in this situation. Being used sexually HURTs, its marks stay on your soal as a scar, even if it felt good at the time. Separating yourself from all contact with her is the first step in your healing. My prayers go with you.
2007-01-22 22:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by thePriest 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry. There are many like you at this age. Nothing has happened. Simply relax. That lady can not expose your photographs. Because, if she exposes your photographs she is in more danger than you. In fact, you can also counter threaten her that you will expose her in front of her son, i.e., your friend and her husband if she attempts to disturb you.
Meanwhile you can send the address of that lady to expose her. Remember hence forth any sex out side the marital alliance let it be, pre marital or extra marital, always give pain at a later date.
2007-01-22 22:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by madurainagpur 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is this your fantasy?
or just some rubbish you made up?
If your friends mother has been rolling in the sack with you, and you were feeling abused, why did'nt you simply stop going over to her plac. Surely she didnt come to your house and drag you over.
The pictures she took of you? what sort of pictures are they? is she in them and if so is she bound and gagged? What use would they be of to her?
I think your lying and wasting everyone elses time.
2007-01-23 22:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by brian p 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that u have to take some photos of her, then stpping, visiting her, and i don't think that she will tell ur parents, and if she do, the disavantages will be WORST to her than u, she will destroy her marriage, broke her freindship with ur mother, and evry one in her society will look at her like a *****.
and remember also, that even after a long time, someone will know "ur secret", so let's evry body knew it, it will better , because u still a teenager, and she is the most responsable of this.
good luck
2007-01-24 00:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her polietely that you want to complete your education and that's why you have to move to Mumbai. And believe me she can do nothing wrong to you, even if she sends those pics to your parents then she will be in trouble herself. She will spoil her own life.
2007-01-23 00:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Stealth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better to tell the truth to your father and mother about the happened and black mailing by the lady. You are just begin the teen age better to concentrate on studies instead of sexual life. Your brite futureis there neglect all the balckmailing and stright forward answer to be given that whatever she do, do that nothing will happen returnely you black mail her.
2007-01-23 20:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by SHYAM PRASAD K 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your story has all the making of a good fantasy story,but i take it seriously.i will not blame you for this because it has happened when you were very young & i am sure you were not mentally prepared for it. but now since she is threatening you not to leave her.try to convince her that you will visit her once on 10 days or once in 15 days when ever you visit your home. in this way you also tell her that you dont reject her outrightly.expalin to her that your studies are very important at every chance you meet her. by this way she will slowly understand the importance of your studies. since she had a trouble free sex life with you & vice versa for a very long time she may not let you go easily at first point. it might take some time for her to get convinced but it all depends on your will to pursue your education.
2007-01-22 21:44:32 · answer #8 · answered by Butcher 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you were raped dear you need to report her and yes tell your father this is not your fault she is the one to blame. if you feel uncomforable about talking to your father talk to your couselor or and adult you feel close too. it will take alot of braveness on your part but you can do it and need too there is no telling if she has done this to others. but you need to tell someone and get some counseling as i'm sure you are quite confused about how you are feeling. take care and god bless.
2007-01-22 22:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG, Your so lying. What kind of Ignorant college would accept an ignorant non-spelling retard like you. For god sakes, you can't even spell COLLEGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey, Kudos to you though, you're not the only kid that has dreamed of having a MILF force themselves on you.
2007-01-23 12:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by anarchy_policia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋