I have to set you up on how it all went down for you to feel how pissed and confused I am. The week before my b-day I made sure to ask him if he had any plans (I didn't want to assume) and he said "yeah I want to spend the whole day with you and celebrate!" So I made sure to clear my entire day and even deferred on requests to hang out with my homegirls out of town ( I had a pre-birthday weekend out with my friends to accomodate HIM and his so- called plans). As my 25th b-day approached he even called wanting to confirm our plans and then that day came. I waiting all day for him to call & wish me a happy b-day but nothing. Finally around 4pm I decided to call him (on MY birthday) to see what was up and I got his voicemail-repeatedly. Around 8pm I decided to drown my pain in a store bought cake...alone. 3 months later I've yet to hear from him- just like that. I've prayed on it, cried over it, and lost a lot of zzz's on this mess. I'm over him but that feeling of betrayal is lingering.
2007-01-22 21:31:28 · 3 answers · asked by who_dis25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your birthday is the event that made him act on what he intended to do all along.
Count yourself lucky that he's out of your life.
2007-01-22 22:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by childrenofthecorn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God! What a douche! Your feeling of betrayal is going to be there for a lengthy lengthy time period, trust me. Somedays are extra effective than others yet I promise you, it receives extra effective. keep telling your self that this guy did you a pick. He really did. He feels like a finished moron and in case you had stayed with him longer, the wear and tear might want to've been alot worse. that's totally organic to nonetheless experience anger so enable your self have those emotions. do not block them or they are going to hit you once you least assume it. merely artwork with the help of them and quicker or later, you heavily isn't as indignant or betrayed. Like I stated, it takes awhile yet you receives there. i'm hoping you locate someone who a minimum of has appreciate for you because no one advantages to be dropped like that. You deserve extra effective than that loser would have ever given you. strong success!
2016-12-02 22:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you set me up all the tiem
2007-01-22 21:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋