My wife and i have our share of problems. Curently i am deployied to Iraq. I receved an anomoyas email asking me to ask my wife about a guy. I also receved emails from them back and forth insuating a meeting to take place. My wife swares that some one (mostlikly his divorging wife) hacked her account and sent the emails back and forth to get back at the guy in question. I want to elive my wife yet the evedence is also convincing? Any help here can ease my brain.
2007-01-22 21:08:02 · 31 answers · asked by Recon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's two ways to discover that!
The first you have to trust her and ask about that!!!
The second, you must follow her or pay an investigator!!!
Choose the better one and be happy!!!
2007-01-22 21:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by Nobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice, hire a hacker to hack inside of your wifes computer and see if the emails came from her computer. It is possible that someone could hack into her account and them send the emails, in this case the emails would not be inside the registry of her computer. Now if the emails are inside of her computer it most likely was her. If you find it that in fact came form her computer, you decide what action you should take. Before that, I would wait and investigate. If you are still at home or have someone that you trust to do that, I would put a software monitoring device in her computer, and the software will run on the background without she knowing. With the software you will receive daily messages of what websites she went and emails, even what she typed. It is not the best solution but is the way to go. Hopefully she will do nothing wrong in the computer, and you will get back the trust on her. Whatever you decide think about God first. God will help you to make the best decision. Good Luck.
2007-01-23 15:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by bbluckylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, what I would do in your case is this. Every time you start to think about this situation, block it out and do something to keep busy and get your mind off it, talk with your buds over there about my suggestion and maybe they can also kick in and help you out. I am not in your shoes, but I do know what the feeling is like, I actually sensed my (now ex) wife was cheating and i was right on. I am now re-married and things are good. So worst case is -whats gonna happen is gonna happen , if your back home or NOT, she is either faithful or not, you being there won't stop it- trust my experience. Best to let the cards fall where they may and see what this "test of time" shows all, and what type of woman you truly have there. Time will tell all, and you will end up better off thinking like this. Good luck, be safe and god bless all you guys over there and thank you!
2007-01-22 21:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by yawhosucs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends upon how much trust you put on her? I'd say, hire a private detective & get the things resolved? Private detectives give you even proofs etc. also. Or you have another option, dont tell your wife, but just make a trip back to home for a week or so & keep an eye, it shud resolve the issue...
2007-01-23 17:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 11:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to have trust in your wife. Honesty and communication are a must in any relationship. It is something, that story. I would be upset too if I were you, and your wife should understand. Is there someone in your and her family that you know and trust with that information? It is hard to do when you are not anywhere near your wife. If it is a joke, it is a sick joke. If it isn't, it is despicable and your wife should be ashamed of herself. If someone got a hold of her account, then she should delete it and get another one and only tell you what it is. I will pray for you and your marriage and pray that she is not cheating on you. Hugs to you and I commend you for your bravery and all you are doing. I was in the military during Desert Storm and was only called up to Fort Sam Houston during that time. My prayers are with you and all of you for your safety and strength during this time.
2007-01-22 21:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one is up to no good, but wouldn't you be better off over in Iraq watching out for your butt, than worrying about dumb emails?
You'll just have to be the tough soilder your are and wait and see what is going on when you get back home.
Can't you have a family member or friend do some serious checking for you back home sense you can't?
2007-01-22 21:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people cant "hack" an email. If they dont know the username and password they cant get access. The only way to know for sure is have a friend back home keep an eye on her.
2007-01-22 21:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by searay092003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your spellings are really awful. The possibility of hacking web sites and passwords are possible. Explore this possibility to the fullest before suspecting adultery. You would never be able to repair a relationship if you broke it out of mere suspicion and that also happened to be misplaced.
2007-01-23 04:35:44 · answer #9 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry this had to happen to you when your off fighting. Yes she obviously is cheating. I hope you dont beleive her lies eventhough its so hard to deal with over there. If i were you i would divorce her when you get back and i would find someone special that will never hurt you this way again.
2007-01-22 21:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by camden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋