Would you be interested in a girl who is somewhat intelligent, good humored, kind, generous, tall, carries a little extra weight (athletic though), clean, and that's it. I would say a friend was wondering, but who I am I kidding right? I am very new to an open lesbian lifestyle, and am wondering what my chances for success are out there. Sorry for the personal add format of my question. Thanks!!!
2007-01-22 20:56:50 · 14 answers · asked by Jen P 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ok, to clear this up, I am not looking to find a person to run off into the sunset with on yahoo answers (obviously). What I'm trying to do is find out if I have characteristics that people find appealing. My "sorry about the personal ad format" comment was a joke, because what I wrote sounded like something you would put in a personal ad. Once again I'm just curious, not looking for love, so please, everyone stop propositioning me to run off to the bahamas. Thank you.
2007-01-22 21:07:35 · update #1
Come to think of it, I am loyal, honest and trustworthy :)
2007-01-22 21:20:52 · update #2
(Sigh) I claimed to be "somewhat intelligent." How many times do I have to say that this is not intended as a personal ad. Just for kicks I'll say it again, this is not a personal ad!!! Really, if you want to question my so called intelligence, at least use something valid, like how I spelled ad "add" originally.
2007-01-23 11:16:34 · update #3
Don't worry about it so much, lesbians aren't straight men. ;-) You have every chance of finding someone.
One of the best things for me about coming out was having a counter to all of the perfect-body images that often overwhelm the straight dating scene. Women are beautiful, whatever shape or size. Lesbians know this very well.
2007-01-22 21:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by The angels have the phone box. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about adding, honest, loyal, trustworthy, and sincere.
that would be a total package for me. to answer your question
yeah those qualities are appealing cause no one wants a negative
whiny person to hang around with.
plus if you are comfortable in yourown skin and its shows when you are out in public, thats a plus also.
take it slow since you are new to the lifestyle, women can be friends and learn as you go. education is a wonderful thing.
tkae care and good luck
you can email me at logan6171@yahoo.com if you have more questions, im a friend first type lesbian, so this isnt a proposal.
2007-01-23 05:12:56 · answer #2 · answered by sharma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say don't even worry about it. If the qualities you listed are in fact true you should be fine. As far as looks.. seriously, don't even worry about it. I see a lot of very beautiful women with short, heavy butch women. Just take things slowly if you've recently came out sometimes it isn't always best to just jump into something. As far as being new to the lesbian lifestyle, maybe you should try some websites like myspace or even metromojo.com for locals and you can get to know other lesbians and get out there and experience it.
2007-01-23 06:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by hillrayyyy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely would be!! The pickings where I come from are short, hairy, crass and really really butch. So go out there and be yourself - there are lots of girls looking for a "normal" kinda person. (And lesbians don't really care about looks, so don't feel the need to add the "carries a little extra weight" - we all carry some extra weight... even the "skinny" ones think they do!)
2007-01-23 05:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound the kind of person I would like to meet if only for a talk. I am 62 and meet ladies for lunch every week there are usually 8 of us including 3 lesbians, I am one of them.
Take life as it comes. You have no worries in the "nice to know" score.
I wish you every good thing in life. Rose P.
2007-01-24 00:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by rose p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She'd definitely catch my eye! I think you have good chances, since you sound lovely. I just love it when someone mentions their intelligence and humor (so long, of course, that it's true)- those are far more important to me than the looks part.
Good luck!
2007-01-23 11:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You claim to be intelligent and yet you put a personal ad on Y!A. I think I'll pass for now.
2007-01-23 13:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't use yahoo answers for personal ads.
2007-01-23 05:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those are all very good qualities to have. Why wouldn't someone be interested in what you have to offer. You sound great. Good Luck!!
2007-01-23 09:08:09 · answer #9 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep if i knew those details through a friend id be interested, im shy about new people thats why itd have to be through a friend.
2007-01-23 06:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by blakorkid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋