I was seein a gemini guy 28 on an off for half a year, but he wasn't in the frame of mind for a relationship at this moment . The thing is from day 1 we gelled, got on very well intellectually and always had so much fun. But he really didn't want anything serious. I have tried to move on several occasions but he always comes back saying that he misses me, my company, someone to talk to and liaise with, & even says that I am perfect for him but he still dosen't want a relationship right now. So I have decided to move on for good, as he is way to fickle. He called me the other day talking about us doing a business proposition in a few months etc, but were over now. I emailed him the other day and said that I hav nothin against him but due to the circumstances we should no longer be friends. And he emailed me back saying ARRHH JANEL JANEL, YOU ARE STILL MY KITTEN!. I don't think its advisable as he needs to realise what he had without me around. What Do you think?
2007-01-22 20:24:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
We never trully appreciate anything until its gone... I think its a good move on your part to move on... But you really have to move on... be open to someone else. If he does come back. Dont lose sight of the reason you left in the first place... It would be a fatal error if you just keep thinking of the good times... You "like" someone for the good things you "LOVE" someone because of the bad. If you feel that he still doesnt realize how special you are... It wouldnt be worth it to take him back... You deserve a lot more than that.
2007-01-22 20:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by raiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh yes the good ole Gemini dillema! Gemini's are well known for their infidelity and/or commitment issues in the Astrological community.
Gemini's are ruled by Mercury, which is the planet of communication, travel and intellect. Gemini's are an AIR sign and if you think of the wind or air - it never stays in one place too long. It goes with the flow and often doesn't worry about where it's going or when it gets there - it just goes! This characteristic can be seen in most air signs. Due to this penchant for change - it is hard for them to stay in one relationship for long periods of time. Generally speaking they are a fickle sign.
I am curious - what is your sign?
2007-01-22 21:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jenn R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men usually know within a week or two if they want to have a relationship with you or not. If you have become a "friend with benefits" to him (sleeping with him whenever he wants you to), what motivation does he have to want a relationship? Also, Gemini men are very fickle. When he feels you pulling away, he probably comes on strong and makes you feel wanted and deisred and that you should wait for him. If you want a relationship with him tell him and do not compromise what you want. However, I say you should move on and find someone that values you, WANTS you and thinks you are special enough to want to commit to. Besides, you know the answer to the question already. In your heart you know that you should move on. There are PLENTY of fish in the sea. How would you feel if you waited for him to decide that he wanted a relationship with you and one day, he tells you that he found someone else. Dont put yourself through that, be strong, don't compromise, and move on.
2007-01-22 20:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by isis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have given a question in a format not entirely suitable for astrological study. You must mention the birth details for astrological study and trust me coupled with the details that you have provided. Any astrologer would be able to give a very good perspective of the things to you.
Some time due to some combinations the situations deteriorate but it may be temporary so whether it is a temporary / short term or permanent/ long term this as astrologer can tell better Than any one else so please go to some astrologer and then discuss the things
2007-01-22 22:48:14 · answer #4 · answered by Kamal K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to a Gemini man's heart is NOT through his weenie!! You have to go inside his head and talk on his level. They aren't
that good in the sack unless you can think on your feet!! Serious!! @8-)
2007-01-22 23:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that Gemini's can be fickle unless they are truly in love. When a Gemini man is in love with you they stand by you through thick and thin. He is not in love with you based on how he is acting. I would move on.
2007-01-23 02:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a gemini, we are very giving of our hearts, and when in a serious relationship, we don't let go that easy!!! never ever mix business with pleasure!!! i think you did the right thing, move on unless u enjoy the on off thing!
2007-01-23 11:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by gemini girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was really back then why are you here worrying? Yes move on to someone more compatable...you havens said your sign...
2007-01-22 23:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋