I want to date a guy but i never trust other gay guys
2007-01-22 20:14:11 · 12 answers · asked by exagreat 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you would probably need to get some professional therapy to help you learn to trust others. there is not much chance to have an honest love without trust.
2007-01-22 20:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
I think I'm not allowed to do this, but I just wanted to tell you that I wasn't referring to your question, I didn't want to give you a complex :) I was just talking about in general, I think I'm bitter that I never get a ton of answers to my questions. OK. BTW, I totally think you can have an honest gay love. Just remember that trust is something people should earn, it's not something that should be freely given, or you'll get burned, at least in my experience. Once a person earns that trust from you, you'll be good to go!!
2007-01-23 04:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with that - I wouldn't trust a gay man either. I know a gay couple who've been together about 6 years - and they've both cheated up a storm. But I also know of other gay male couples who HAVEN'T. I guess it's trial and error hey - and a little luck. You gotta kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince.
2007-01-23 04:26:34 · answer #3 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound emotionally immature. Perhaps some counseling might help you, IF you are over 18 years old. If you are under 18, then your fears are normal. Wait a few years, begin to date later after you get an education and see a bit of what's going on in the world around you.
2007-01-23 04:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have experienced having a relationship with a guy who seem to be a gay. It is better for you to know more about the person that you are planning to have a relationship with. May he be a gay or a real guy. In my case, I have known him for quite a long period of time and I have assured myself that he fits to my standards. Its for your own look-out to see to it if that guy would be someone good to you. If you'll find it enjoying and satisfying to be with him and can see an honest intention of him to you then go.
2007-01-23 04:24:11 · answer #5 · answered by pyrrhus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So cute:-) You have no choice but to trust (friends, boyfriends, or any relationship). When trust is lost, that is when it gets difficult; but you won't get anywhere without the first having blind trust with people. The trick is to learn when to end a relationship because you can't trust them -- or they no longer make you happy because you can't trust them (or many other reasons besides trust).
2007-01-23 04:20:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous Answers 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're gay then you can't trust yourself. Lay off the judgement and give someone a shot.
2007-01-23 04:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, many people (gay, straight, bi) have that problem with trust, atachment, connecting with others and so on. It is all up to you. You have to overcome yourself and your fears. Ask yourself why you dont trust them? Why are you afraid? Look around you, how other people behave in relationships.
2007-01-23 04:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Saki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything is possible as long as you keep on believing that there's someone right out there.
Peace and Love
2007-01-23 04:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by mil's 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so may b u dont trust ur self so u dont trust them
2007-01-23 04:19:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋