I m 30 yo. Am having this premature ejaculation problem for nearly a year.?

Question

Have tried the squeeze method or even i m lying and my partner on top of me still do not solve the problem. Is there a permenant solution to it? I have heard that hypnotism can help to solve this problem.

Answer 1

At some time or other, most guys experience premature ejaculation, which means that they ejaculate before they want to. They can't control their response to the stimulation that triggers ejaculation. This is also called early ejaculation. Up to 35 percent of young men experience early ejaculation so often that they see it as a problem.

Being very excited, fear and anxiety about sex, alcohol and drug use, and depression may cause early ejaculation. Open communication with a partner about likes and dislikes, and paying attention to sensation — to slow down the process of getting to the point of ejaculatory inevitability — during sex play can help guys delay ejaculation.

Men who seek sex therapy for early ejaculation are taught the "squeeze technique." The partner brings the man to erection, but squeezes the penis just below the glans with thumb and forefinger just before the time when ejaculation would become inevitable. The partner applies pressure until the erection is reduced by 10-30 percent. The penis is released for about 30 seconds before it is brought to erection again. This procedure is repeated until the man can go for 15-20 minutes before ejaculating. When he can postpone ejaculation, he is allowed to have intercourse again.

Other men have tried Extended Pleasure condoms by Trojan or Permorax condoms by Durex. These condoms are coated with a mild anesthetic on the inside that desensitizes the penis and helps a guy last longer.

Hope this information helps!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I guess there is a solution for ur problem:
I had the same problem as u but now after searching on the net and combining the information on the web sites i found a training which might be good for u.
First of all u have to know how much time do u take to ejaculate 2-3 min.Then u have to put a target for ur self to reach eg: 10-20- 30 min as u like.then try this exercise:
1- Put to ur self some points:
0- no erection at all.
1-4 Erection increasing.
5-7 full erection.
8 having a nice feeling.
9 point of no return.

now take a stopwatch and go to the bathroom and do this exercise:
First get some erection, then begin stroking ur penis slowly at the beginig, then make it a little faster after a while.
keep on stroking and in ur mind that ur penis is very strong he ejaculates after 10-20-30 mins as u like,and keep on stroking it with average speed untill u reach point 8 but try not to reach point 9.
When u reach point 8 stop and take deep breaths in and out for 1min or 1 and half min untill ur penis returns to points from 0-4
then start stroking again and do the same again.

Dont keep on doing this no just 2 times meaning (Stroke till point 8 then relax then back to point 8 then relax and thats it)
Note: Do not ejaculate during this traing and do not masturbate alot.eg: just once every two weeks.
Do this once a day or twice according to ur time.

I started to do this training 3 days ago
The results of this trainig with me
1st day i lasted for 6 min
2nd day i lasted for 10 min 30 s
3rd day i lasted for 13 min

all these records were recorded with the break in the middle.

Remmember do not ejaculate.

I hope i helped u alot

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Oh dear. That does not sound like a pleasant experience. The more you panic about it, though, the more it's gonna play on your mind. Firstly, yes, you probably just are very excited to have sex with your girlfriend. Nothing wrong with that. However, you have to find a way to control yourself. This can be done by.... almost testing I suppose, your sensitivity whilst masturbating. Or when you're about to "go in" try not to think about her or the sex at first. Maybe think about what you did earlier that day or something else you enjoy doing that's not sexual in any way. I know that sounds a bit silly because you should want to focus entirely on your gf, but you have to remember you're trying to make it enjoyable for her as well...and the longer you last, the quicker she'll.....ya know.

Answer 6

The Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM IV) defines premature ejaculation as a persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, on or shortly after penetration and before a person wishes. Wow, that’s not a sexy definition. Personally, I define it as you come quicker than you or your partner wants. Luckly this is a great solution for premature ejaculation https://tr.im/770b8

Answer 7

Just relax and pay attention to your body. Pay attention to how it feels to approach orgasm. You should be able to feel your body give signs a few minutes before you actually orgasm. When you feel that you are beginning to lose control, stop and wait for the feeling to pass. Especially do this when you masturbate. I find that most people masturbate as if to get it over with, when they should be aiming for endurance. Also, get some non-verbal sign to explain to your partner when to stop (like a soft tap on the shoulder or something), so that you don't have to hurt the mood by saying "stop!" Also, focus on short strokes and grinding movements instead of long strokes. Good luck!

Answer 8

see a doctor to solve the problem, if you do not wish to see a doc, then I would suggest you masturbation half an hour to one hour before having the actual foreplay and follow by intercourse. This can help you to have longer time with your partner.

Answer 9

damn sorry i'm young and dont have that problem try not to think about it think about old people ............... and when you feel your about to c*m dont go faster slow down and go real slow.



*advice from a 16 year old that you can trust*

Answer 10

Masturbate before you get intimate, it will prolong how long you can last. Not that I would know from experience, of course.