i dont want to keep this baby.. what do i do?
2007-01-22 19:21:29 · 17 answers · asked by stelee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Forced? Means you were raped! Need to call police! After you have a physical exam, and it was last night, talk to your doctor. You may not have conceived. Why do you think you did? Morning after pill is available.
2007-01-22 19:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by E-Razz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go straight to the hospital, tell them ur situation. I know its scary but trust me. They will do a rape kit and call the police. A rape kit isnt that bad, they just swab ur vagina with a Q tip type of thing, do blood tests for std purposes and give u the morning after pill which is to make sure u dont have a baby. The police will question u about what happend and who that guy is. If you have the panties you were wearing take them with u, and hopefully u havnt showered yet. Its best if u take a very good friend or parent with u to have a shoulder when u need it. I have been in this situation before, i know how hard it is and i know what u r going through. Please just take care of yourself and get help immediately.
2007-01-22 19:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Angelina A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you were RAPED! GO to the emergency room and have an exam! It is not to late! There is no charge for a rape exam if you file charges and fill out a little bit of paper work.
I am sure that you are just freaked out and like you said, have "convinced" yourself that you are pregnant.
They will most likely offer you PlanB at the ER, but you can buy it over the counter at any pharmacy (well, most). You have 72 hours to use it (this is when it is most effective).
You should also get tested for STDs... in most cases when getting treated for a rape you will get what they call preemptive treatment. This means that they will give you antibiotics that will take care of the most common STDs just in case you were exposed to them.
At least go to your local Planned Parenthood and talk to a nurse, they can give you PlanB and testing there and they are very well educated and compassionate people.
2007-01-22 19:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't know by the next day whether you had conceived or not. If he forced you then he has broken the law. You might want to visit your doctor for a morning after pill.
2007-01-22 19:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if someone forced you, that's rape and you need to go to the police. Second of all, it's way too early to know if you've conceived a child or not. You need to go to the police first and foremost and worry about the chance of a baby IF that arises. Don't take a shower, go to the police, now!
2007-01-22 19:25:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're afraid you may have conceived. You really have no idea after one day, but taking the 'morning after' pill RU 486 would be a good idea to make sure.
2007-01-22 19:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! Listen sweetheart, whether he was your BF, one nighter, friend ...whatever. anyone who is FORCED or made to have sex when they don't want to or say NO clearly( i assume you said this, or made physical attempts to let him know you weren't willing) THAT IS RAPE!!!
Go to the cops or if you are feeling threatened and want to take a more discreet approach go to your local hospital and explain your situation to the nurse, request confidentiality of the matter and they will take care of you.please do not be afraid and seek the help you need.
Be strong and take care of yourself, no one should have to go through that kind of BS alone
2007-01-22 19:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by amarie828 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a pharmacy and get a morning after pill, they will work if you take it within 24 hours. They have a rather high success rate so that should be more then enough.
hails,
Silence
2007-01-22 19:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by Silent One 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was last night, get a morning after pill immediately. And report the guy!
2007-01-22 19:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you ought to on no account ever be compelled into having intercourse of any type. Your boby is sacred and it would purely be meant for somebody that loves you and respects you and your physique. some one that may not harm you or your physique. Its no longer for some one to easily take for there very own liking to fulfill their very own egocentric desires, and not evaluate the wear and tear or outcomes that it would desire to have on your existence. i do no longer care how warm or in love you think of he's, he isn't worth it. And he does not love you in any respect if he's forcing you. i could tell my dad and mom. i could be ordinary and discuss with them approximately and tell them what ensue. tell them !
2016-11-01 01:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by doti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋