my bf and i have been dating for almost 2 years on and off-most of the time on and a couple of months off. we attend the same university, met at the same jr. college then transferred to the university we now attend,and love each other to death. we are in our 20s-early- and this guy of all the guys i have dated is the best! none of my relationships have lasted long beyong the 2 month mark and this guy loves me, adores me, surprises me, even goes to the same school partially because of me because he did not want to see me be miserable if he went out of state to another university. he does so may things and bends his back for me that sometimes i do not know how to take things like Valentine's Day stuff since none of my ex's and i were still together at that time. i somehow feel guilty because he might be going partially to the same school as i am just to make me happy and maybe not himself. i know he loves me, we both want a family at some point in the future-after having a degree. help
2007-01-22
18:38:10
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icycrissy27blue
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so, should i feel bad because he might be going to the same school as me or should i be happy? i know that he never likes to surprise anyone, none the less bring home his gf and let her spend the night at his parents home and same at his grandmothers-both were new year parties-and he has never spent so much time, money, effort, and everything talking about the future. i feel scared because it seems too good of a thing which i am not used to when it comes to relationships.what do you guys think he wants? is he serious or ready to make a committment or what is he thinking?
2007-01-22
18:42:14 ·
update #1
im saying in general: can there be too much love in a relationship. it does not have to be my relationship. and no, my bf is not overbearing, overprotective but CHALLENGING and a pain and he just wants me to do my best. if that is considered overprotection than i disagree
2007-01-22
18:55:19 ·
update #2