The other day me and my boyfriend were being intimate and i really didnt want to be with him in that way at the moment,and he still was touching me and stuff and he noticed i didnt want to but proceeded. A few minutes later i told him i want to leave and he said why i told him i wanted to go home so as i tried to leave he pinned me on the bed and did it to me. I told him to stop and he wouldnt and as he was doing that he was telling me he love me and dont leave him and for me to promise not to leave him i love him but i dont want that to continue.
2007-01-22 18:02:30 · 14 answers · asked by tonguelisciouslove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes. You must end it immediately or you WILL become a victim of much worse than you have already been subjected to.
A man like that will continue to see how far he can go until you are in a hospital or dead. Then they just go onto the next victim. They will say or do anything to make you stay.
How much is your life, and of course your happiness, worth to you? Are you willing to let him beat you half to death because he you think you love him?
2007-01-22 18:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you really need to leave this guy. Don't drag it out any longer. That makes it worse. He don't respect you at all. He knows he messed up or he wouldn't beg you not to leave and saying he loves you in the middle of it all doesn't make it ok to continue on raping you. Please at least seek help. I believe this is a abusive relationship. Don't let things get any worse.
2007-01-22 18:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by darlingnicky772 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES! This is the start of an abusive relationship,and if you are smart and respect yourself it will be the end of an abusive relationship.
You have been raped. Just because he tried to sugarcoat it, dosent mean you wernt Dont give him a chance to do it again,because next time he might use violence to get his own way instead of words.
2007-01-22 19:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out now, if this is just a dating relationship and he is doing this kind of crap now, you could be in for some very hard times. Trust your instincts. What he did was rape, boyfriend or not, you said no and that should have been the end of it. He does not love you, he wants to control you, this is one of the bigger signs of an abusive person. Please, please leave him now. take care of you.
2007-01-22 18:24:07 · answer #4 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lets see, he held you down, raped you, told you he loved you, and made you promise not to leave him.
Lets see, he raped you and you want to know if it's the start of an abusive relationship. Are you in shock or in denial? I hope that you're not conciddering continuing this relationship.
2007-01-22 18:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You were raped and this is the classic scenario for domestic violence. Report to police and keep the sheets. go to the hospital and be checked out immediately. No means No. You should have scratched his eyes out. It's YOUR vagina honey, YOU make the decisions.
2007-01-22 18:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This courting can turn extremely violent in a heartbeat. First you dont understand while to leave a guy or woman by myself. You dont desire to be pushed or hit yet you're inflicting him to react in in spite of the fact that way he has to, to have some peace. leave the guy by myself while he walks away or covers his ears & drop it till a later date while issues are calm. Secondly, the subsequent time he tells you to leave dont try packing in fornt of him or argue with him permit him vent & the subsequent time you're by myself leave. You the two want the area to accomplish a little authentic soul looking approximately this courting & what you desire from one yet another. Its time to make or ruin it earlier it gets gruesome. third, you're able to think of roughly getting some expert help to your melancholy reason it might desire to be fueling the a number of fights. i understand people while depressed dont desire to be afflicted & gets indignant extremely quickly. final, its in no way ok for all people to place their palms on yet somebody else b/c of anger. It doesnt count if its pushing & shoving or spanking on the rear. additionally you haven't any longer any outstanding to attempt forcing him to hearken to because you desire to argue & shouldnt placed your palms on him to tug his hands from his ears or ruin a door down. Violence is provided in many varieties & so does abuse. You the two are abusing one yet another & could be taught some obstacles approximately the different persons physique emotions needs yet quite often a thank you to understand one yet another.
2016-12-16 11:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, by the way no means no. This sort of thing has been asked on this site before and a lot of guys say it's ok to do what they want to you while your sleeping so your bf thinks the same . Get away from him. He so obviously doesn't respect you.
2007-01-22 18:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by uknowme 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to get help, boo you were raped...he raped you...bottom line. You need to call the police and make a report. You may not be the only one...if not for yourself, for the next victim he rapes. What if you accidentally get pregnant...get out now while you can, Please.
2007-01-22 18:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by aprildin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is - face it girl, you were raped. Report it to the police and dump the guy!
2007-01-22 21:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋