The other day me and my boyfriend were being intimate and i really didnt want to be with him in that way at the moment,and he still was touching me and stuff and he noticed i didnt want to but proceeded. A few minutes later i told him i want to leave and he said why i told him i wanted to go home so as i tried to leave he pinned me on the bed and did it to me. I told him to stop and he wouldnt and as he was doing that he was telling me he love me and dont leave him and for me to promise not to leave him i love him but i dont want that to continue.
2007-01-22 18:01:54 · 5 answers · asked by tonguelisciouslove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes. You must end it immediately or you WILL become a victim of much worse than you have already been subjected to.
A man like that will continue to see how far he can go until you are in a hospital or dead. Then they just go onto the next victim. They will say or do anything to make you stay.
How much is your life, and of course your happiness, worth to you? Are you willing to let him beat you half to death because he you think you love him?
2007-01-22 18:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do realize that that falls under the category of rape, right? and 9 times out of 10, once an abuser, always an abuser. If you don't want that to continue, you could try and talk to him about it (but in a public place, just to be safe), but more than likely, he won't stop. He might at first, but he will probably not change, not really. If he does it again, you have to leave him. I understand that you love him, but you need to love yourself more.
2007-01-22 18:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that could lead to an abusive relationship just like sometime when he is mad and you want to leave he would do it again. its up to you to stop it. you can leave him now so he wont do it again or you can wait til he does it again and you may never leave him. dont let him have control over you
2007-01-23 03:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, you really need to walk away. he needs to respect your space and if you don't feel like being intimate...he needs to respect that. if he doesn't i am pretty sure that's rape. so you don't need to take that chance and go further with that issue. do leave!
2007-01-22 18:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up and move on. yes, that is abuse. no is no
2007-01-22 18:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋