What do i do?

Question

My bestfriend has another best friend who she alway talks about. My friend and i have this sisterly relationship and nobody could ever split us apart, but i don't know what to do. Her other friend and i have tried hanging out, but we really just don't get along at all. My friend invited me to go somewhere with her over the phone and i heard her other friend ask if she could come too. She said yes. I couldn't go anyway because my family was here, but i told her we were having a party at my church later if she wanted to come. I went outside to get something for the party and her mom drove up with her sister and her bestfriend, but not my friend. Aparently she went to her other friends house. Now she keeps talking about how much fun they had together and i don't know what to say about it. She knows i don't get along with her friend. It's like she's rubbing it in my face. I don't know. Please tell me what you think i should do. And don't just say talk to her, becasue I've done that. Thanks

Answer 1

Well, this does sound like high school, "three's a crowd." Let her talk and tell you about the fun she had with the other friend. Listen and then change the subject. Don't let her know that it bothers you so much.
She may have gone with the other friend instead of with you to the church party because she had already made plans to go out.
On the other hand, if she has moved on to another friend, you should try hanging out with other friends also. She will miss your friendship and eventually want to hang out with you again, Don't put down her other friends, though, and be careful what you say. She may go back and tell her.

Answer 2

Wow, that must be hard this is why I don't have best friends because you think you always have someone there for you but sometimes they tend to drift away. That's why I have close friends they may seem like the same thing but I have too many friends for them to be the best! About your problem, I wouldn't talk to your friend over the phone if you are going to talk to her talk to her in person because you never no who may be listening or watching!?! I am not sure but sometimes when friends are mad you might have done something to them without even thinking so, you might not even know! If she was really your best friend she wouldn't favor etheir of you but sadly I think she is favoring the other girl ((or boy?)). If you want your friend back you need to talk to her, I know you tried but you need to ry again!

Answer 3

Your best friend is trying to get you jealous cause that means you care. But that's just childish.If she talks about this again, let her talk all she wants. All you have to do is, nodding, ask questions, listen. Eventually she'll had enough talking about it.
But if seh just doesn't stop after soo many times and you had enough, tell her, I'm glad you had a good time, (then start talking about something else). Don't be angry or irritated when she keeps talking about it. If she talk again, answer with: yeach? that's cool. (happy voice) (then talk about something else).
Just think of it , how many answers could I give to her, be creative, have fun answering her. Hehe.
I have this kind of best friend too. Usually I just listen to her talking about her other best friend, but I don't mind because I know I'm the better friend. I don't hang out with them when they're hanging out, and I think it's cool if my best friend is having a great time with other people.

Answer 4

I say just ignore it because they are trying to get you upset about it, and after a while they'll notice it wasn't working. you could also try talking to them again and say some like " I feel like you are trying to rub in my face and you and your other friend, and it is hurting my feelings"

good luck

Answer 5

Be friends with both. I have two best friends and it's great!