About a week ago I found myself making a decision based on what other's had to say. I believe it would change my life forever.I've always been easy going and the person friends will call when they need advice or help with the something but now I feel like I 'm the weakest link.I'm 31 yrs old and tired of saying yes to everyone just to please them.Well it just so happened about week ago I needed advice and I listened to them as well as my mom and I have regreted my decision every since.I need to know how to say no and mean it and start helping myself b4 others.Any advice.
2007-01-22 17:31:57 · 11 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Making good and bad decisions are all apart of life, unfortunately, we have to deal with them. Start making up your own mind and forget what everyone else says to do. This is your life and IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU!!! No one else, just YOU!
2007-01-22 17:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had a clear answer but I have given the question to the Lord just like you. Then when its time I go on my feelings not what makes the most sense sometimes. I believe the Holy spirit is in me so I go with that. Its easy to tell if you chose wisely or not. Remember even if you screw up and you make the wrong decisions God can still bless that path and if God wants you someplace you will find your way back around.
2016-05-23 23:59:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize that you make decisions everyday and while some of them are not so good - others aren't so bad. Be an adult and make mistakes and resolve issues on your own. Don't opinion shop, look to yourself and trust your gut. If things don't work out then you will have learned a lesson in life. You need to do this because you can only rely on yourself!
2007-01-22 17:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Zena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, before u start saying no to people u have to check whether u like to be alone, without any friends. cos when u start saying no u will have a significant reduction in number of friends. if u re down with that - just say no. it is very easy. to stay without friends is not that easy thou
2007-01-22 17:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if you cannot do a some thing than simply say no to that person and tell the truth that you can but it will take time and u don't want him/her to keep waiting so do it yourself
or you can say no yaar i cannot do this. if u say the truth then ppl will like u and respect u for that.
2007-01-23 00:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by priya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should start concentrating on what you like to do, what you enjoy and how you see yourself. The only way you say no to others is when you know why you're saying no.
2007-01-22 17:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by Blabbermouthknowitall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its usual that we used to say "yes" even if it trouble us inorder to please our frends. but you know usually frends make use of our good nature. so once we experience such incidents we must learn from it. so you before you do something in favour of your frends just think once whether it is necessary or not.
so help the one who realy deserves and otherwise try to learn saying noooooooooooo
al the best
take care
good day
frenly lins
2007-01-22 17:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,it's so nice geting advices from others,means they take care of ur,but always do what your heart is say,take decition of ur own in any problem,k,leation them but do what u find right.k.
2007-01-22 18:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by sweet r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide what you want to do and set goals for yourself. When you are asked to do something that you don't want to, just say, "I'm sorry, I can't do that".
2007-01-22 17:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by shendley04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should discorse to your perents and a friend whoes understand you
2007-01-22 19:29:37 · answer #10 · answered by amit g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋