I don't want any detailed excursions or anything like that as an answer, but I would like some ideas here. My hubby and I are both ready to 'try something different' but neither of us are sure where to start. I'm usually the one that controls the 'bedroom behavior.' But, I'm having a hard time coming up with new things to do--I'm not the type of person who looks at all the x-rated stuff so I'm not sure where to go with this. Ideas, suggestions, anything typed tactfully would be appreciated. Or even links to websites (that are more than the average website sat up for horny guys) would be a great help. Thanks!
2007-01-22 16:46:46 · 10 answers · asked by Midnight Butterfly 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know where you are coming from and this is what i have found thus far.
http://www.sexualpositionsfree.com/
http://www.handjobadvice.com/
they aren't pornographic just informative. and if your hubby is anything like mine he'll love being surprised with your newly acquired knowledg. good luck and have fun.
2007-01-22 16:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not the actual act that needs to be spiced up but tej lead in. My wife and I have found that a lot more touching, caressing, and kissing before teh actual act makes sex not only more exciting but much more romantic as well. Beyond that maybe a variety of postions or even role playing might help. Good luck!
2007-01-22 16:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by mmcmillan68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've been having great sex for 36 years; let me tell you what we've done in the past.
Toys. Always fun if you can enjoy them and get into the mood. Buy a dildo that you like and masturbate for him; most guys enjoy that.
Light bondage. Tie him up with soft restraints - silk or nylon scarves. Soft leather blindfolds are very affordable and add a nice touch of mystery. Touch each other with things like feather dusters, soft brushes.
Check out sex swings; there are several designs and they afford a great position. You're basically suspended, weightless, and posed very nicely for both viewing and penetration.
Role playing; professor/student, nurse/patient, doctor/patient, hooker, exotic dancer.
Do you by any chance ever share your masturbation together?
2007-01-23 00:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll take a shot at it, or at least I'll tell you what I'd like to have.
Do you remember when you both started having sex? Remember how passionate it was? Hot, steamy, sensual sex. It didn't have to be anything special...it's just that you both wanted each other so much it was like fire.
I guarantee if women (or even men for that matter) can put that back into the sack, it is just as good as when you both started going at it like rabbits.
2007-01-22 17:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by down_and_out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick up a copy of several Nancy Friday books about women and fantasy, you'll get lots of ideas. you might also try erotic stories at literotica.com or asstr.org for some varied ideas.
Your hubby is a lucky man indeed....
Good luck, and peace out
2007-01-23 09:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by winefp2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can try role playing like nurse and patient
buy a wig of a different color other than ur hair color long or short
this may be a little much but its only role play dress like a hooker or stripper do a little dance or have him buy u for the night u know things like that. good luck. hope that helps
2007-01-22 16:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only a single recipe to keep your sex life hot and spicy, truly LOVE your partner and than whatever you would do, would just spice up your S[-X life.
2007-01-22 16:56:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried oral sex or using deserts with oral sex like whipped cream or fruits or ice?
2016-05-23 23:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to put in one time remove and insert in back side one time alternatively by standing next to bed
2007-01-22 16:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by killer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some toys that will help.....you will love having someone use a vibe on you...........
2007-01-22 16:54:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋