Is it OK to have premarital sex? What are the pros/cons?

Answer 1

R Ya gettin married to the person..or is he/she goann think your easy? I say forget it unless your gettin married unless ya just wanna have fun, I say get a health check to be safe cuz you and I know there are not condoms used these days very rarely, we all know it

Answer 2

It's OK as long as there are no children born out-of-wedlock and there are no possibilities of children: being born accidentally, observing the sex, or questioning the commitment of the sexual partners. So, the pros involve the fun, sharing of warm feelings, enjoyment of the orgasm, comfortable images of love, potential permanent partnering. The cons are the uncommittment, the destruction of self-image and self-respect, the loss of innocence and virginity, and of course, the birth of a child unplanned and unwanted out-of-wedlock. That's the pits because the selfishness of premarital sex does not take into consideration the desires of the birth child. The younger the couples are, the heavier the cons are against premarital sex.

Answer 3

It is Ok but you need to face the circumstances if things doesn't suit the couples.

Pros :-
1) He/she can finds out how actively their sex life and from here, couples will know whether is suitable and enjoying with each other.
2) Bring more intimacy & closer relationship with each other.
3) To spice up the love spark among themselves.
4) To release pressurised especially heavily workloads. By having sex, he or she will be more comfortably and not throwing tantrum or temperaments.

Cons :-
1) Accidently ejaculate inside his girl and perhaps there is no planning to settle down at that moment. Hence it will lead to abortion where there is a risk of doing so.
2) If for those irresponsible man who is only interested in the woman's body and if he has got what he wants, the chances of his girl being dumped is highly coz he isn't serious in the relationship.
3) Once starting an intercourse, it will lead the couple to try for others (for those couples who are interested in active & spice sexual).

Answer 4

sex is only one piece of the marriage, and not the most important in the long run. To me it was important to know totally what you are getting into. There are a lot of sexual variances with people and compatibility is necessary in this area also. With out premarital sex, there could be a lot of negative or neglect feelings come out later after the marriage. Granted, attitudes and things change as time goes but its nice to start out on a even level. An example what if you really enjoyed sex and exploring each other and your spouse only wants sex for procreation purposes, there could be a big void in your lifestyle.

Answer 5

Ah I am tired of this questions. Ofcourse theres ups and downs. here if your going to rule your life by the bible then your a sinner but according to that book everything is a sin. so here is the real world answer with out the morals and bs of religion.
Pros you will find out if his good or not. You will find out if you really want to be with him forever and his the only person you will ever do. Big issue for some women after they have sex before merriage. Then ackwards nervouse feeling of the honeymoon. You get to have fun and it feels good and you get to have a sence that theres more to looks and emotions and personailty theres that as well he he
negatives are well if you merry someone else and you had it it wont be the same if he sucks. last person you will ever do it with. theres tons on both sides but thats what i can think of

Answer 6

How bout post-marital sex?

I am a widow who does not intend to marry again. I did my 24 years and was faithful and a good wife. I will not be waiting for love at 46.

However I do have male friends that I respect, who also respect me. If I want to sleep with a man who's friendship and companionship I value and he is single and we are safe then why is that wrong?

I'm not about to go quietly into the night and never have sex again just because I don't want to marry. So, sorry folks but I disagree and I'm not afraid to say so. My relationships are caring, trusting and they make me feel valued and decent and I return those things to my partner

Answer 7

i believe you should wait til after your married. It shows that both of you are ready to commit as grown adults in love. It shows that this person wants to be with you for the rest of their lives. Do not worry or look at anyone's failed marriage and think that your life will be like theres. It is truly up to you if you want an exclusive sexual relation or one that is rooted in a very weak boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. marriage is a very tight bond. and sex is not only physical but emotional and spiritual as well.it is a bonding of the Whole person to create a new person. So be sure that this is what you truly want.

Answer 8

It doesn't matter if you are a woman or man...my response will be the same...

You better find out what he/she is working with before you marry it...If it sucks your stuck...so I say give it a whirl...you have nothing to lose except a possibility of a poor sex life for life!!!

People will tell you oh its wrong...oh you can get pregnant/or get her pregnant....umm people divorce all the time..so waiting won't change a thing.... Of course you should protect yourself no matter what...even after you are married...be sure both of you are tested for everything first before you go that route.

Answer 9

No its not OK to have premarital sex and even have with your better half alone for the rest of your life.

There has to be some difference between HUMANS and ANIMALS.

Answer 10

what happens if you have great sex but decide that it would not work out after all in other ways, and then later on marry some one you really love but with whom sex is not quite as good? You will remember the better sex...........then what will happen..............................