2007-01-22 16:23:33 · 18 answers · asked by Person 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it is not OK to have sex outside of your marriage! It would be like tracking mud and tar on brand new white carpet. You will never get the stains out! Do NOT do it!
2007-01-22 16:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Nurse Jacqui 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm so happy that the other posters find no pros in sex outside of marriage but, I am a widow who does not intend to marry again. I did my 24 years and was faithful and a good wife. I will not be waiting for love at 46.
However I do have male friends that I respect, who also respect me. If I want to sleep with a man who's friendship and companionship I value and he is single and we are safe then why is that wrong?
I'm not about to go quietly into the night and never have sex again just because I don't want to marry. So, sorry folks but I disagree and I'm not afraid to say so. My relationships are caring, trusting and they make me feel valued and decent and I return those things to my partner.
Your question is worded to include any sex outside of marriage. Are we just talking about cheating?
2007-01-22 16:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO, it's NOT ok, there are absolutely NO pros. When you get married you make vows before God, saying that you will forsake ALL others, meaning keeping yourself faithful to your spouse.
The cons of cheating, well for 1. you could get an STD from whoever your cheating with. 2. Your spouse finds out, your marriage could be over. 3. If you cheat and your spouse finds out, they may cheat on you to get back at you. 4. Your spouse may in a fit of rage may kill you.
Tell me does cheating now sound all that appealing?
2007-01-22 16:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife says it is OK to have an open marriage, then it is OK to have sex outside of marriage.
If you really want to cheat, then get a divorce so you're single again and can do what you want. Sex outside of marriage (without permission) is so disrespectful to the wife and what marriage is-- while both partners are alive, it is a bond between two people and two people alone.
Really, this question shouldn't even be asked.
2007-01-22 16:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If for exploratory sake, it is OK to have sex outside marriage. I am not saying it is right, I am just saying it's ok. And please hear me out before you send a lynch mob my way....
PROS: By having sex out of marriage, you will finally be assured that there really is no PROS. And find out that everyone is right.
CONS: guilt; gnawing conscience; the misplaced confidence of thinking that if you did it once without getting caught you can do it again and again; and many more....
2007-01-22 17:39:47 · answer #5 · answered by RocketDog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex outside of marriage is one of those topics that will forever be debated and never resolved. the answer is simple. it all has to do with you and your core beliefs. do you think sex outside of marriage is ok? should you be married to have sex? does a long-term committed relationship count? only you can answer these questions. don't worry about what others say. let your own conscience guide your actions.
2016-05-23 23:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not OK. Think about how you would feel if you were cheated on and lied to. I think people who lie and cheat should be married to other liars and cheaters. They deserve each other. My best friend was cheated on by her husband and was devastated, but yet she remained faithful. Why should a faithful, good person have to put up with that? You need to go to counseling and figure out why you are so insecure.
2007-01-22 16:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's absolutely wrong if you want to build your home in loving area. Your wife will find out and your marriage life will be over. Think of it more cerafully if you want to have a happy family. Good luck!
2007-01-22 16:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by MIB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not ok. you are married. you forget your vows or something? to me, there are no pros and there are too many cons. if you wanted to keep sleeping around, why did you get married in the first place?
2007-01-22 17:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it not ok to have sex outside of marrige, there are no pro or cons
is just wrong regardless of what you think.
2007-01-22 16:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋