i might be pregnant but i dont know how to tell my boyfriend?? any advice?

Question

well i know im pregnant cause at night and sometimes during the day i feel something move inmy stomach and i should be 6 months pregnant. but anyways how do i tell my boyfriend that i am pregnant ..........advice please im only 15 and he is 16

my perants dosnt know....i dont know how to tell them. my mom threatend to kick me out and send me away if i get pregnant

Answer 1

You MUST tell your parents. It will be hard, but if you wait much longer, you'll get the chance to tell them when they are holding their grandchild. You really should tell them now. I'm concerned if you haven't had any prenatal care. You mother will be disappointed. And she most likely will be upset about it, but you've got to tell her. Do it at a quiet time of the day and sit her down seriously and just tell her. You need support right now and she has a right to know. If you feel like you can't do it alone, tell another trusted relative or friend and ask that they be with you when you tell her. As for your boyfriend, you guys didn't seem to have a problem deciding to have unprotected sex, so now is not the time to decide to have selective discussions. Just sit him down and tell him. Now.

Answer 2

Hun, being young and scared seems like the end of the world... I can understand that. I was in the same situation a few times in high school, but fortunately I didn't get pregnant. I know how you feel. However, unless you've taken a pregnancy test, you really can't be certain that you are prego. If its possible to get your hands on a test, do it. Planned Parenthood, although it sounds scary when you're 15, is VERY nice about situations like yours. They can supply you with a test, orrr they range from prices of $4-10, depending where you shop. You MAY come out negative, and that would indicate some sort of abdominal problem. I'm not saying you're probably not pregnant, but you must be absolutely certain before you tell your bf. If you think he's the supportive type and he'll buy a test for you, then that would be the best way to go.

Common signs of pregnancy are frequent urges to urinate, nausea, back aches, tenderness of the breasts, missed periods * in your case this should be obvious *, excessive tiredness, headaches, and strange food cravings. Most of all, you should definately be showing by now. A LOT. This website should be very informational for you : http://www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/earlypregnancysymptoms.html

Be calm and tell him privately ... probably not at school. Sit him down and clarify exactly where you are in your relationship. Tell him everything that you've experienced... be warned, he will likely be upset. But if he does care for you, he'll come around and be the supportive boyfriend again.

Hope this helps. God bless...

Answer 3

Just be honest. If he cares he won't over react and he'll be there for you. To give you all the support u need. If you are 6 months preg. Then i'm pretty sure it's noticeable and he knows by now. Please go to an doctor and get blood pregnancy test done to make sure you're pregnant. Then go from there. I felt my baby move earily when i was 4 months but i always thought i was going crazy. Me and my husband knew i was preg but i didn't tell my parents till it was 5 months. So i know it'll be alittle scary cause you don't know how your parents are gonna react to it. It's gonna be hard but there is nothing you can do now but have the baby. So just sit your parents down and talk to them like an adult. If you need support ask your bf to sit with you while you tell them. I know you're young and you're dealing with an adult situation but this is why people say it's hard. Because it seem you have to grow up over night but don't worry. If you can approach this like a mature young adult then all things will go well. Good luck and take care.

Answer 4

First things first. Go doctors or if that is not an option to a pregnancy clinic (not sure what they have where you are and find out your pregnant. Although it seems likely you need to no for sure.

Then you have to be honest. Maybe tell your boyfriend first if your close. Be honest with him and see what he says . He is gonna need to stand by you through this and you will no if he is really the right man.

Then as hard as it tell your parents. Do you have one your closer to or one that would understand you more. Then maybe tell the other together. Pick your moment and do it soon.

You really need to go doctors to check your baby is ok.

Good Luck

Answer 5

First, you need to find out for certain if you are pregnant and if you are, see a doctor. There's really no easy way to tell a boyfriend - especially when he's 16. I had difficulty telling my boyfriend and I was 39. If you don't feel confortable talking to your parents, do you have an older sibling or perhaps an aunt or cousin that you could talk to? Best of luck.

Answer 6

What kind of fellow is he. Is he a good sort, or are you afraid of him for some reason? How does he treat you? Good, or bad? How do you think he will act? What do you want him to do and how do you hope he will react? You should have, in my opinion, told him to keep it zipped Sam. Do you have some idea what this will mean to him and you? You had a right to some things, but now it is not total in your hands. I'd be more worried about what my parents and his parents will say and do. If you want to know what he will say just tell him. You might start things off by saying Hi, Daddy, hey guess what? You were way too young to have been fooling around, but hey that's it. I'd tell him soon, though.

Answer 7

You must first take a urine or blood test to confirm your pregnancy. If it is confirmed that you are pregnant, then you need to get the proper prenatal care for you and your unborn child immediately. If you are not pregnant, you need to start using some method of birth control so that you do not become pregnant before you are ready.

As far as telling your boyfriend, you have to be mature. If you aren't mature enough to talk to to him about the possibility of you being pregnant, then you should not have had sex with him. After you tell him, the two of you need to tell your parents and his parents together and have a plan in case they aren't willing to help.

Answer 8

well, first you should find out for sure that you are pregnant. there are many more symptoms and signs than what you are describing. You can either buy a home pregnancy test, or talk to a counselor to find out where you can get confidential free pregnancy testing- if you are unable to talk to your parents. But to be honest, your parents would be your best resource at this point, or another person you are close to, to help you find ouot if you're pregnant and then to tell your boyfriend. You and someone closest to you will know him and you better than someone over the internet, and could advise you best. I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 9

If you think your 6 monthes you need to be seeing a doctor. Go to a clinic and have a check up. You can buy Prenatal pills over the counter and iron at any Pharmacy.

Have you told your parents? You need to speak to them no matter how scared you might be. Being a teenage mom is hard. Being a teenage mom to a baby with problems will be even harder and you need to be going to prenatal appointments and check ups.

After you have spoken to your parents you need to sit down with your boyfriend and his parents and let them know. So they can help you. I can promise you that it will not be pretty but after it's all done and over with it will work out.

Answer 10

How have u gone this long without knowing??? or showing for that matter!! If you really think you are you should see a doctor first to make sure that your baby is all OK and stuff. Then when u know 100% sit him down and say Babe i have something to tell you! Then just say it! As long as you tell him asap you should be fine, he may upset at first but with time he will calm down. If you haven't already told your parents make sure you do that too!! They really need to know and they can be there to support you and stuff. Good Luck and congrats if you really are.