ive been with my boyfriend for almost 1 year and the frist time i cheated on him was when i was drunk, then the next time was a 2 weeks after that and .. now ive cheated 3 times.. and i know i have him but yet i continue! HOW DO I STOP!?!!?
2007-01-22 16:16:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
First of all, if you really want to be with your bf, you need to stop behaving in such a hateful way. You should be honest with him and let him decide if he wants to stay with you. If you don't want to be with him anymore, I think you should just break up with him and not tell him about the cheating unless you turn up with some sort of disease. I think he has a right to know in either case, but I don't see much of a point volunteering the information if you're leaving. If you think of another reason, by all means tell him.
Second, you know how to stop already. If you don't, I'd be shocked. No one made you cheat, and you know it. It is no one's fault but your own. Being drunk is no excuse. You didn't have to get drunk. And if it's really because you're horny, well, I think you need to see your boyfriend more often and/or learn how to masturbate. Good night!
2007-01-22 16:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you stop? Tell him that you've done it. And if he leaves you, then that might teach you a lesson. Not trying to be mean but it might hit you and make you realize the consequences. Or think of why you've really cheated- do you want your bf to be different? Or maybe you're not ready for a committed relationship
2007-01-23 00:23:53 · answer #2 · answered by twinortiz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, the best question you could be asking is why are you cheating on your boyfriend, and only you can answer that. I don't imagine things are peachy keen in your relationship. If you have any real feelings for him you need to tell him about your cheating streak and then go from there.
2007-01-23 00:25:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, dont wait for him to break up with you.. what your doing is wrong and not fair to either of you. Obviously your not happy in your relationship if your looking elsewhere, so why stay with him? the sooner you end it, the easier it will be to handle. in the mean time stop cheating. cheating is the worst way to end a relationship..it leads to alot of problems later on.. and if you keep doing it and getting away with it, your going to continue doing it.. to all of your partners...
2007-01-23 00:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by soccergal22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you say slut puppy? if youre cheating with the same dude, then i gess he is your new bf. if youre cheating with various, multiple dudes, and you have a bf, then you are a slut. Just get rid of the bf and go on humping freely. then you would garner a wee bit of respect.
2007-01-23 00:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems that you dont really want to be with your b/f cause if you did you would not be doing this. So decide your b/f or freedom to be with others you CAN'T have it both ways as he WILL get hurt.
2007-01-23 00:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by cailieco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a commited relationship you will stop if you want to keep it. Maybe you are not ready for a commitment.
2007-01-23 00:57:53 · answer #7 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Playmate,
He's not for you, dump him, and don't look back. You'll stop stupping when you find the right guy.
2007-01-23 01:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by Bay Watcher 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably cheating on you too. Personally I'd dump your *** without telling you, and then when you saw me with another girl, I'd pretend I didn't even know you.
2007-01-23 00:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You're a f*ckin skank.
I hope you feel like ****.
And I hope he finds someone who appreciates him and is madly in love with him.
Bastard.
2007-01-23 00:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by r0ck.grrL 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋