What do men hate most in a relationship?

Question

In a relationship, what is it that us women do that pushes men away the most?

Answer 1

Depends on the guy--
for some a clingy helpless female is a turnoff; for others an independent women's libber is.
for some a brainiac is a turnoff, for others a complete ditz is.
for some a talkative magpie is a turnoff; for others the shy, demure type is.
for some a sexually experienced gal is a turnoff, for others a virgin is.
But the thing they love the most is being the center of their woman's world.

Answer 2

I don't think it's possible to say what *men* hate the most. We're all so different. But I'd say feeling trapped isn't real nice. Some guys don't like to have their woman talk too much. I don't like it if she's not communicative. Controlling isn't real nice. But aloof isn't nice either. Not being respected sucks. Being misunderstood sucks. Hmmm... There are so many things I can think of that ruin a relationship. It's hard to pick just one.

I'll go with my original thought. I think the thing men hate the most is feeling trapped and possessed by a woman.

Answer 3

When it comes to feelings, use the don't ask don't tell rule. Most (or close to all) men don't like to talk about their feelings. Men have about four feelings. 1. We're horny and want sex 2. We're hungry and want food. 3. We're fine, no need to get into details. 4. We're mad as hell and we're not going to take it anymore. I think in that order.

Please don't nag us (see #4) . Don't start a fight with us, that usually has #4, but we hope it ends with #1. Crying confuses us (don't do that), there is no defined feeling. We rely on in an internal random selection for feeling, again we hope for #1.

Answer 4

I think this is true with some women but not all that most men hate, is that women don't trust us men. But that can also go both ways where the guys don't trust women either.

Answer 5

It really depends on the man, but there are some common problems they have with relationships. Some are .... not enough/to much sex, to much 'nagging' done by the other person in the relationship, they don't feel respected by the one they're with, and the person they're with doesn't seem to take care of themselves anymore (let themselves 'slip' in appearance and the like). There are just so many variables to this.. mostly due to the two people's personalities.

Answer 6

Because so many men are afraid of getting burned and so a lot harden themselves believing they'll never get burned again... Woman don't realize that guys can be hurt by a break up too.

Answer 7

When you make his business yours or you figure your right to talk to people, is greater then his right to privacy. Sneaking and snooping thru his computer, calender, planner, phone log's, credit card receipts, check book, wallet, or anything else he does not invite you into,. He may be your Man, but he is still his own man. Yea these thing's can end the relationship..

Answer 8

A control freak. I know what needs to be done around here and I do it whether it be handyman stuff, chores, kids. I hate unfinished business. But why does her agenda have to be how we do things? Just do your share of the crap and I'll get mine done. And don't control my friends, I can't stand most of hers anyway.

Answer 9

1- wants to talk after sex . 2-never ready on time . 3- to many headaches. 4- hard time about going out with friends . 5- spends to much money . 6- hard time about working to many hours. 7- wants to talk about things that doesn't make sense. 8- have to give in to her in order to keep the peace. 9- feeling's get hurt to easy. 10- knows it all. 11- NEVER SATISFIED.

Answer 10

Well most of the time its mind games..they say one thing..like I really like ya then they turn around and give you the cold shoulder and drive you nuts ..cause you really start to like them and after they get you interested they leave you hanging like you mean nothing. That and the constant complaing ....