What would you do if your best friend got taken avantage of by a guy and now is pregnant and he cheats on her, but she thinks she loves him and won't break up with him. She is only 16!
2007-01-22 15:45:18 · 6 answers · asked by Finney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This guy has gotten enough girl pregnant 3yrs ago and i can't seem to get it through her head that she shouldn't love him because of what he is doing.
2007-01-22 15:54:47 · update #1
Having an abortion is not one of the options she want to do to her baby
2007-01-22 16:16:20 · update #2
you just really need to find a way to convince her to let him go.. even though she now unfotunately has a lifelong connection to him, because of his baby she is carrying, she needs to face it that he isn't worth it.. he obviously isn't a good guy.. i don't know what's worse.. the fact that he got her pregnant, or that fact that he's cheating on her. if she doesn't wake up soon from this trance she is in, you should really, really go talk to her. just be honest and straight forward with her. i think that right now she might be trying to put all the bad things behind her, and just pretend that everything is fine and dandy, but she needs to wake up back to reality. she might take it a little hard at first after you talk to her, because if you was under that great amount of stress that she's in, then i'm sure you would too.. but if she gets a little mad at you after you talk to her, she will forgive you in no time. in fact, i am almost POSITIVE that she will thank you. it's truly for her own good. you can't let this go on any longer!!
2007-01-22 16:07:41 · answer #1 · answered by Brittany J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yaar this is really a very criical situation cause what ever was teh intention but now the girl have to face teh whole world and for that she needs to be very strong, so in that condition I cant really help her out, yeah I can suggest some other ways to get the baby aborted and start new life..
SMR..
2007-01-22 23:53:24 · answer #2 · answered by SirfMayuR.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your friend is in denial, immature, or just ignorant. I'd stand by her side, and be there for her... as for the guy.... hang him where it counts. I know a few really nice guys, and a lot of jerks like that... and it is hard to ge tover being used... I know from experience.
2007-01-23 00:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by Booboo doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a toughy. but lets face it i mean really. why love someone if they dont love you back! and really hes not a nice guy if he had unprotected sex and now she s pregnant and he CHEATS on her. how many other girls has he gotten pregnant you know?
2007-01-22 23:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by abby_borg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops...
2007-01-22 23:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you say statutory rape??
2007-01-23 00:01:59 · answer #6 · answered by pllk5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋