should i trust my gf after she has broke our trust?

Answer 1

Depends on what she did. Everyone deserves another chance. No one is perfect. If you love her enough to try to get through it with her, then let her EARN her trust back, don't just give it to her. Regardless, things always get better over time.

Answer 2

depends if it's a pattern of behavior, or just a one time thing. depends if she is sorry and wants to make amends. trust is the glue that holds the relationship together and without it the relationship can never work. got to know where u stand, and where her heart is really at. usually when trust has been broken we never quite feel the same way about that person, especially if we thought we were in an exclusive relationship with them, and than found out we weren't. can do a number on our self worth. can't trust her for a long while, she will have to be willing to regain your trust, and show it in her actions, not by words.

Answer 3

Trust is something that must be earned. Depending on the severity of the infraction, you may or may not decide to continue the relationship.
If you do want to continue the relationship, your gf must realize that a track record must be created again, and that she must re-earn your trust, by first of all realizing that she has broken the trust, and by demonstrating to you that she wants to repair the damage.
If you choose to forgive her, and she earns your trust back, the matter should be dropped and not brought up again.

Answer 4

you answered your own question. she broke your trust. you cannot trust her now. what you CAN do is work on fixing it and seeing if things will get back to the way they were. this is a two way street though, you both have to work at it, even though it was her fault, you have to be ready to trust her again if you want to go that route. if not then i suggest you break it off because there really isn't a point having a relationship without trust (cliche but true).

Answer 5

Thats the true problem with trust. You cannot just decide or choose to trust someone, either you do or you do not. If she broke your trust it will take time for her to earn it back. The real question should be are you going to give her that chance really. You may not be able to trust her again but I would try to allow her the chance to earn it back if she is important to you.
-NmD!

Answer 6

Not right away, she has to earn your trust back. Have a talk with ehr about her breaking your trust and make sure she wont do anything like that again, but its not that simple, because she broke your trust you will have to be extra protectice for a while, but not forever. If she asks "why dont you trust me" say "i used to trust you but you broke that, now you have to earn it back" Just keep her under a careful eye and evetually you will trust her again. Although if she keeps breaking your trust, then talk to her about it, if she dosent have a good reason forget her.

Answer 7

Well, the answer is in the question. If she broke your trust, there is no trust for you to have for her. It kinda depends on what she did though.

Answer 8

well it would depend on how serious you all are. But its really hard to trust someone one they have broke that trust. I would say NO.

Answer 9

No, it doesn't matter what she had done, once she broke your trust, it should be over. Did she know that what she was doing was bad for the relationship? If so she's guiltier.

Answer 10

Water is wet, the sky is blue, a bf or gf who has lied to you before will do so again. It's a universal truth. Fool me twice, shame on me.