my boyfriend dylan and I have been dateing for about 3-4 weeks.
hes so shy i cant help but wonder if he even likes me.
we saw eachother around school but we talked on myspace for about 2 weeks before we told eatchother we liked one another.
i waited to see if he would ever ask me out.
until new years when i got feed up with waiting and asked him if he would go out with me.
he said "hell ya".
so back to my point hes too shy. i always have to say hi to him and call him and hug him and everything.
yet all of his friends tell me he likes me alot.
and we have some of the same friends.
but.. what can i do to make him not be so shy?
2007-01-22 15:19:53 · 11 answers · asked by Lisa 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i dont scare him.
2007-01-22 15:25:36 · update #1
i usally dont hug him.
and im tierd of calling him.
i always have to do everything.
he gets upset if i dont call him.
2007-01-22 15:28:30 · update #2
I remember being so shy when I was in school. It was terrible. Give him time. The more you're around each other and get to know each other, the more he will open up to you.
2007-01-22 15:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by LaurenElyse 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Start withdrawing and let him chase you a bit.
Don't call him, wait till he calls you. If he asks why you don't call, just say 'Gosh I've been so busy with school and home stuff. Sorry about that. It's good to hear from you..."
Remember you are a prized possession and no woman should throw herself at a man.
It's good to be unavailable sometimes and let the guy chase. It makes him appreciate you more.
But careful not to go overboard or be weird, it must be natural and gentle. Not an everyday or weekly occurrence, or else you may come across as too full of yourself to make contact.
2007-01-22 15:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by fizzents 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well first he has to be totally comfortable with you so that he isnt shy anymore
Also ask him why he is so shy with you. You cant help ease his shyness if you dont know why he is shy. Just talk to him and let him know hey you dont have to be shy around me!
Well also let him know that it takes two people to make a relationship work You CANT do all the work its not fair.
2007-01-22 15:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes you, but he's a bit uncomfortable with the hugs and such, don't push him into things, just take baby steps for him.
Ask him what he wants to do, ask him what he likes to do.
-Danny
2007-01-22 15:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Danny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you dating if you dont talk to him. lol you probably like 13 everybody know that dating isnt serious around that age. Maybe hes a nerd. Maybe he is intimidated by you. Do stuff that he likes to do or hang around where he likes to. Maybe that will help.
2007-01-22 22:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by Kenny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-11-26 20:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by ballow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just a shy person maybe..maybe ur intimidating? try wearing less makeup..see how that works he probly thinks you are too much for him or it could be that hes just infatuated. talk to him to find out.
2007-01-22 15:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by bandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to go is to either tell him or hint that you want him to do something, i.e 'what no hug?' when you meet him may make him feel inclined to hug you. ^_^
2007-01-22 17:39:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Punch him in the throat that will get a reaction from him..lol jk
2007-01-22 15:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by **Damn its cold up here** 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Shake your money maker
2007-01-22 16:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by mattspoon_81 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋