My friend is like turning into a wild child she peirced her lip on her own without asking her parents on the floor of her room and today she brang vodka in a water botle and got drunk what should I do I really don't want people thinking I do that stuff to????!!!!!!!!
2007-01-22 15:19:07 · 9 answers · asked by T B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok... it's BROUGHT vodka... I'm not attempting to come off as one of those assholes who jump at the chance to yell at people who can't spell or have bad grammar... I have OCD... it actually drives me up the wall... not just an ego trip
sooo
I see no problem with the piercing, of course I don't know how old she is and her way of getting it was completely out of line, but it's her body. As for the drinking, yea that's not good. Vodka is absolutely vile straight up, are you sure that it actually was vodka and she's not just crying out for attention?
If it was, go online and show her the horror stories that result from too much drinking. I myself had one, I could have died. I drank too much, passed out on my bed and threw up in my sleep. If I had not been laying on my side, I would be dead right now. Ever since I can't stand the taste of alcohol. Tell her that's possible and that it can happen to anyone.
2007-01-22 17:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by Artemiseos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like the things she's doing, find new friends. This may sound mean, but its really not. I don't know how old you are, but if you are really as mature as you sound you are (because your concern shows your maturity) you don't want to hang out with people like her anyway. If you do YOU WILL BE GUILTY BY ASSOCIATION. That means no matter how much you distance yourself from her bad habits, other people you care about (friends, family, teachers, etc..) will assume you are doing the same thing. You don't want to be one of those people. And even though your head is on straight now, if you hang out with her in her rebellious times, it will rub off on you. You won't drink alcohol, but you'll try it... to you won't get drunk, but you'll drink a little..., to you'll get drunk but you won't get wasted... Its a long process of chain of events, but please while you have the right mind, make this a step forward and hang out with someone else. You don't have shun her, but do it for yourself to make an effort to find another friend that has similar values.
2007-01-22 15:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Siege 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell her that if she needs you or wants to talk you will be there for her and that you think she is doing wrong and leave it at that... you are only responsible for your actions not hers and you cant control her so dont try people will know if you are doing it too or not and it doesnt matter anyway because once again you cant control anyone else actions only yours
2007-01-22 15:25:26 · answer #3 · answered by crazyme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its time to pick new friends.or you should set her down and tell her she is making a fool out of her self.if she is a true friend she will understand.and if it takes to walk away,then walk.she could cause you a lot of trouble.you sound like a nice person and you really dont want to be like her.so best bet is to walk away.
2007-01-22 16:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by rebecca_autry2003 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try to help her and stuff and if she just gets worse and doesnt listen to you dont hangout with her as much or just forget about her cause u dont want to get into that stuff yet neither do i cause my friends smoked and i was like no im not goin to but they eventually stoped cause i asked them to and helped them it might work
2007-01-22 15:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sammie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get a new friend - who needs friends like that.
2007-01-22 15:23:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you tell her to stop and she dosent she isn't really your friend.If she is really your friend get her some help
2007-01-22 15:27:53 · answer #7 · answered by red_dimond28 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shes not worth it make new friends
2007-01-22 15:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
stay away from friends like that
2007-01-22 16:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by squawwitoutamule 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋