Okay theres this girl who will be 1. I like 1 ( as a friend) and she used to be a geek and now is the most popular in the grade.Shes real nice, but when she gets around boys she loses her mind!She slaps them on the butt and they hug her waist and she jumps on thier backs and its gross!She even got a boyfriend on myspace who thought she was 14!I wanna tell her so bad to stop acting like that, but i'm scared she won't be my friend anymore.What would you do
2007-01-22 15:18:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thanks Red for the caring answers, but I'm a girl. Lol...
2007-01-25 11:13:41 · update #1
Leave her to it. If anything happens to her down the road and she needs help then help her. Just dont say anything. But drop her if shes annoying.
2007-01-30 10:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by JuicyPiink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh no she didn't! Hello? insecurity. This is going to turn into a big problem later on when one of those guys wants to date her and she rejects him or leads him on. She'd better be more careful. It could be deadly! There are better ways for her to just like herself more and not feel like she's Got to have men think she's sexy. If she flirts too much the right guy who would appreciate her won't be able to get near her or trust her. Everyone will tell him that she does every guy. Is that the kind of future she wants?
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2007-01-29 07:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are really her friend then you would tell her how it gets annoying to see her do that, and tell her to be careful, because something that she doesn't expect might happen. So if she gets mad, just tell her that you care for her allot and you don't want anything to happen to her if it gets out of hand, but if that does not work then she is not a true friend, don't worry if she never talks to you again because inside you know that you did something right that no one wanted to go by.
2007-01-30 14:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by smith_kallissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have three choices....
1. suck it up and deal with it....don't watch and just know that you know better than to act like that
2. leave when she starts acting like that......just tell her that you have something to do or get if it gets to the point that you can't handle it
3. tell her and take the consequences....talk to her as a friend and just ask her why she does it and that you think that people may be getting the wrong idea about her and that your her friend and it hurts you that people are thinking of her like that....do it one on one in a private place though and don't attack her or make her feel threatened
she may like it and not want to stop so you may just have to look at how much you can really deal with...
2007-01-30 10:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Rhylie and Paiyden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say just go to her and have a casual conversation and then eventually get to it in a nice way, and tell it to her as a friend, and give her the instances where ppl thinks of her as being young or immature and tell her that as a friend u really care abt her and wants the best for her and she might well listen to u...it works
2007-01-30 04:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Kaneo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her new found popularity has gone to her head. Maybe in a couple years, she will realise that you dont have to be loud and obnoxious to be popular. I dont think you have to say a thing, cause someone will soon, of that I am sure.
2007-01-30 04:02:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav had a friend like that. it gets really annoying. i tried talking to her about it but she just says im jealous that guys like her more (in your case "You're just jealous i hang out w/ other guys more! u just want me for yourself"). (maybe not) but i just said its really embarrasing and she should turn it down a notch. well..maybe two notches. lol. but you should say that kids (mostly girls) will start calling her and sl.ut. its wat happened to my friend and she totally lost most of her friends because they didnt want to seem like they hung out w/ those kind of ppl. rumors started and they were really bad.
you cant change her decision. but you need to sit her down and say that its not cool to be one of those kind of girls. say that it will attract the wrong kind of guys. if she wants a guy that is kind and smart like her thatn she should just flirt with them in the talking kind of way. not like she wants to go past first base which is just kissing. as for the boyfriend thing- as long as she dosent give out an adress or meets him some place then shes safe. just be a good friend and watch her back. she may not know it but you are and awsome person to be this good to a friend. and ur a guy. not many guys like you these days...
2007-01-22 15:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her if she dose not talk to u then she is not a friend !!!
2007-01-22 15:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by buddy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry deres noting me or u can do bout this. this is how she truly acts and even if you tell her she probaly wont stop. i would jus ingore it
2007-01-22 15:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by natural asian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋