Ok been happily married 16 yrs and NO this isnt a problem just wondering.Hubby use to be able to last like 30 minutes and yes he still totally satisfy me but anymore he never goes longer then 20 minutes..1 guy told me when a guy starts to *** quicker its because u are getting hotter to him and he gets to excited,,Does anybody agree with this,,Hubby is 42 would his age be why.
2007-01-22 15:10:58 · 11 answers · asked by gaby d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Like i said this isnt a problem and he doesnt need help..i was just wondering thats all
2007-01-22 15:18:40 · update #1
When a guy gets excited, he c-u-m-s in less than two minutes, not 20. Be happy your husband lasts for 20 minutes because 5 is about average.
2007-01-22 15:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that it is an age thing you are lucky he lasts as long as he does my husband started to slow down around age 42 and then now at 53 its been a few years since he can do anything its awful so be happy he still can i am in my forties and have no shot at sex and i am not happy go have some fun and see a dr if it getts worse so it can be fixed if need be
2007-01-22 16:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mississippi's Jersey girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's lasting longer - much longer than most.
How quickly a man orgasms has less to do with the "hotness" of their partner and more to do with how they are conditioned.
A difference of 1/3 in his timing could be due to all kinds of subtle things. If you're looking to find out if he thinks you're "hot" why don't you ask him?
And I guess I don't even know how long it took my husband to get off but probably wouldn't have had it down that close. You takin a stopwatch to bed dear?
2007-01-22 15:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as you get older, usually you can last LONGER because it can take longer to peak much less platue, this is why the young guys generally are called 2 min wonders, as they do not know how to control it. If anything he needs more practice on peak and platue and can easily stretch out the time to 1 hours plus.. if he practices.
2007-01-22 15:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that certain prescriptions can effect sexual performance, check it out with a doctor. I did and was given a different prescription with good results
2007-01-22 16:45:49 · answer #5 · answered by old man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's like me, he feels his wife gets more beautiful every day and that certainly stimulates him more. You're both lucky to have each other. Count your blessings. Enjoy!
2007-01-22 15:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hum...intresting question...My opinion is sometimes in a marriage partners can get lazy....Sure he wants to please you but effort is not the same as before....This is a touchy subject to bring up to hubby...If you bring up using some kind of toy maybe he will get the hint and men don't like to be out sources....lol
2007-01-22 15:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by getembigger_85027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the third time you've asked this question in a 24 hour period. What's up?
2007-01-23 10:14:48 · answer #8 · answered by winefp2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could be part of the reason... He may want to talk with his doctor and try viagara or something like that to help. I wish you and your husband the best with this.
2007-01-22 15:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not the quantity but the quality. Enjoy what you have. Some people are not as lucky. ENJOY
2007-01-22 15:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by kellyfl59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋