How would i know if my husband cheating on me?

Question

i didn't notice anything yet but i would like to know in the future what kind of sings of cheating i should pay attention to unless it's obvious,

Answer 1

He starts dissappearing, very secretive, not quite as interested in you as he once was, starts giving you the i don't give a **** attitude,going in early to work and staying late,not showing up on the pay check, Watch for him changing his self cleaning up more...Hope it never happens to ya though

Answer 2

My ex-husband cheated on me and in retrospect these are some of the blatant clues that I missed because I never thought he was the type to do that sort of thing.
Working late or going somewhere after work
new hobby
hang up phone calls
Wants to change your phone number or hides phone bills
takes a shower when he gets home
Seems angry or distant for no reason
New friends
Accuses YOU of having an affair (projection a psychological term)
Tells stories about 'other people" having affairs
If you suspect and ask him about it, he will call you suspicious and mistrusting and get angry.
When I found out my ex was cheating, he denied it and then claimed it was only one time and then that he felt so guilty that nothing happened. I divorced him anyway and found out, of course, all of that was untrue and it had been going on awhile.
He wanted to change our phone number because somebody was threatening to call me and tell me what was going on.
Lots of betrayal. If you do not trust your husband you have a bigger problem whether he is cheating or not. Something is wrong if you are checking his pockets, his phone bill etc. Get to the real issue and find out if you can repair your unhealthy relationship.
and NO you can not TURN your man into a cheater by asking questions. That is ridiculous. Cheating is a character flaw. It is not caused by anything you DO or DO NOT do. Guys love to use this excuse and my ex tried that story many times. Cheating is a personal choice made by the cheater not caused by someone else.

Answer 3

The first signs may be: 1) He begins exercising, trying to make his body better - loses weight 2) Becomes more interested in the way he dresses; buys new clothes 3) May seem indifferent, not interested in the conversations with you like before 4) Finds reasons to either work late or get out, even for a brief while, in the evening.

I sure hope you don't have to go through this. I PUT MY HUSBAND THROUGH THIS - the worst thing I've ever done.

Good luck.

Answer 4

Just apply this simple rule. "Men who have nothing to hide, hide nothing"
If he's being secretive, unaccountable, makes weak excuses, or makes excuses before he really needed to, then those may be signs.

Now about YOU!
Don't go looking for a fire, until there is SMOKE.
If you are going to be so insecure in the relationship that you are going to suspect cheating before it ever happens, then you are going to create friction in the relationship where there is no good reason to.
If I were you, I would start out by asking myself why I felt it necessary to post this question.
Men aren't ALL cheaters you know, but if you keep this up, I can almost guarantee you that you will turn your man into one.
So try to relax, & don't post this question again until you actually think you have a real reason to.

Answer 5

Mood swings like before the weekend or before he routinley goes some where he should get angry with u for no apparent reason he will probably start fights and spend more time to himself he wont talk to you very often but then sometimes he will be extremley sweet but not for long he will then turn his thoughts back to her and his temper will grow shorter with you but no matter what if he cheats you better leave him because cheating is something you never get over you really never chang you just conceal your true feelings for the other person good luck

Answer 6

1st dont wish cheating on yourself and start looking for Ghost under the bed. You would be surprised at the number of women and men driven to cheating by constant questions. I would hope that you both would be close enough that the fear could be addressed and put to rest. life is way to short to worry about things like that. put your time into living life fully and love your husband like you only have one day to live!

Answer 7

When you love somebody and that person is cheating unfortnutly it is not obvious...
Something always happens though to knock the blinding light out of your eyes...
Men always develop patterns because they are not made to multi task....
If he changes his pattern one day its for a reason find out what it is...
Such as...he starts wearing calonge....that's a big sign
He hides his phone...men can be like children and even look like children when they are trying to hide something...So do just like you would do a child find something to distract him with while you find out what he's hiding...

Answer 8

Getting calls he takes into another room,
Daily clearing incoming & outgoing calls on his phones
Becoming less affectionate towards you,
saying he has to work longer hours or days he is usually off is a sign if it isn't normal,
getting calls that hang up if you answer,
Making excuses to stay home when you go places he usually goes to with you.
scents of perfume on his shirts
Gets home later than usual and can't look you in the eye when you ask why.

Answer 9

IIf you are being honest with this question, it sounds as if you are sure its going to happen....even though you think it never has. Why? I think that's the better question. If your relationship has this foundation to begin with, you have big problems already. Solve these problems first...if they're truly solved...you will not have to worry about cheating.

Answer 10

Cell phone bills,credit card bills for motels, jewelry etc, working late,check the mileage on his vehicle, and lastly hire a private detective if you really think he is. They take picture and do things you would not be able to hide to do.