Does it make you mad when the person you are arguing with tries to console you? I hate that!!
2007-01-22 14:58:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
That's never happened to me but I think it would bother me. When I'm angry I separate myself from everything but myself.
2007-01-22 15:33:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure it confuses the person I'm with. If I'm crying because I'm sad or hurt, I want comfort, but if I'm crying becaue I'm angry, it's not safe to be around me. I can't blame somebody for not knowing the difference and attempting to comfort me. However, what really gets on my last vestige of a nerve is when I pull away from the comforting, and then that person TRIES AGAIN! Didn't get the message the first time? Leave me alone!
2007-01-22 15:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by cruztacean1964 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...a few years ago a few of my friends were gossiping about me and adding in their own little lies to make it 'juicy' and I found them out and it caused a whole big snowball effect and I confronted the friend of the group that I thought I was closest to and she was trying to say sorry in between my sobs of betrayal and I felt so mad that I could have slugged her when she reached out to hug me and I just said "DON'T", cause I was not in the right mind set to be consoled. It took me many years to get over the worst part of it. Sometimes I still find myself being distant from people, afraid to trust just to be hurt like that again. Even though I have had good friends since then, but I can never fully bring myself to open up to what's on my mind.
2007-01-22 15:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by LS 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
initially, i understand which you're indignant yet crying not at all solves something.exceptionally once you're crying because of the fact of a boy. Take a deep breath and loosen up. you are able to desire to bypass away the the two one in each and every of them by myself. they are the two an entire waste of time. they do no longer understand what they desire and additionally you're greater proper off via your self than waiting for a guy it truly is a jerk. If the point out of your call makes him indignant or say issues like "**** Off!" than he's definitely no longer properly worth a 2nd thought. each time somebody asks you approximately him tell them which you do no longer wanna communicate approximately him.
2016-12-16 15:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, it makes me NUTS!
It also makes me nuts when I'm crying in a movie and someone tries to console me. Just let me cry, dang it. It's part of the experience.
2007-01-22 15:01:15 · answer #5 · answered by comet girl...DUCK! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes unless it's my hubby. usually when i cry and I'm angry the best thing to do is get the heck away from me. It means I am at the end and am going to really go off
2007-01-22 16:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by katlady927 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it makes me feel better when he tries to console me. At least he shows remorse for making me angry.
2007-01-22 15:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by Aries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. I cry from any really strong emotion (always have) and I hate that they stop and say that they are sorry, not for what you are mad at them about, but that they made you cry...
2007-01-22 15:01:06 · answer #8 · answered by Courtlyn 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes. i get even mad then and cry even more. then the person I'm arguing with get really worried. ahhhhhhhhh.......
(only my husband let me cry and argue with him. he waits until i finish arguing to wipe away the tears)
2007-01-22 15:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Piggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-01-22 15:00:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋