it just gets boring even trying new things its still boring
2007-01-22 14:54:42 · 16 answers · asked by mrs garfield 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your marriage is in trouble. If you find your sex life "boring" even when trying new things, you have a serious issue that needs to be dealt with. Do it now before it ruins your marriage.
2007-01-22 14:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most people do not understand that when a partner who needs sex all the time can be addicted just like drugs. they have a few web sites that discuss the subject in detail and think it could help you both. as for your lack of interest the overall pressure to keep up with the need has you on edge and now instead of enjoying sex and the relationship that it should provide. it has become a chore? not good! no one wants to go to work 7 days a week. if you can both come to an agreement that it is a problem you could find a new attraction in the joint effort. worth a try!
2007-01-22 23:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by kiphyn b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are bored with your own spouse and especially even with "new" tactics brought in...then perhaps you have bigger problems...
Seriously, I don't even know what your sex is, but it really doesn't matter, if you've found yourself unattracted to them or whatever your issue really is, you need to communicate! There's no other way around it, maybe talk to your doctor, you could be experiencing depression or something serious....
Other than that, I hope all works out for you.......if you get help and communicate with your spouse, hopefully things will improve....if not then maybe you're just a pigdog who'd rather be fukking a prostitute....
2007-01-22 23:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you let them have sex with you. You are married, you are supposed to be having sex and making your spouse happy. If things are boring..why don't YOU get up and make a change...its not that hard, introduce something new to to the bedroom that you like. Stop trying to put this all off on the other person...
2007-01-22 23:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would probably try to find other ways of showing love and affection that will please both individuals. Alot of times, wanting sex all of the time is because there's something else going on that they are not wanting to face or deal with. Sometimes, it's to let our frustration. It could be an addiction. Either way, you are not going to be happy until you both find some common ground. Talk about it and come up with some ideas that work for both of you. What will satisfy you both in the way of romance? Could be fun just trying to figure it out! Lights out, it's talk time!
2007-01-22 23:01:24 · answer #5 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try spending some time together without any pressure of having sex. You may need some intimacy other than the sexual type. And let them know how you feel (but let them know it's not personal!!). With all pressure off, you may feel more like how you two used to. It should be something you enjoy...not a chore.
2007-01-22 22:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Suse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do .,But some ideas I have are either A) Go to the Dr. and make sure all is OK with you.Or B)Both of you go see a marriage or sex counselor.Good Luck!
2007-01-22 23:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sex life is boring then that means you are a boring lover. Get help.
2007-01-22 22:58:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I feel ya. theres basically nothing you can do but just lay there and let him use your coochie like a punching bag. I know it sucks but if its that bad get out of relationship.
2007-01-26 21:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by frigginhilarious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried adding a 3rd person? maybe have him watch you or you watch him. that may spice it up a bit.
or, if you want to be a bit devious, find him a gal online. try to set it up as a surprise. you're then off the hook and he's getting hooked up. that'll solve it!
2007-01-22 22:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋