not into drinking, drugs, with no sisters,brothers,and mom & dad died.
2007-01-22 14:48:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't have children. I can't have them. I think about how all my friends have these wonderful kids and I don't. I lost my sister in a car accident and then I lost my fiance. But I got past it and you will too. Family is not just about genes its about who loves and respects you and who's there for you. You can make your own family with friends and a partner. Don't spend all your time missing what you don't have, spend it loving what you do have. You had your parents for awhile so you were lucky, more lucky than some because you have the good memories.
2007-01-22 14:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a very difficult situation. I am so sorry.
I really can't say how I would deal with it, because I don't think a person can truly know how they will react until faced with a situation personally. But, I can give some suggestions.
Create a family. Volunteer somewhere. Maybe become involved with Big Brothers or Big Sisters. Form friendships that will grow.
The question I do have is, why will you never have or hold anyone or have family ever again in your life? Do you think you will never marry and have children? If you do, they will be your family, and you will hold them, and they will carry on your legacy just as you carry on the legacy of your parents.
Best wishes to you.
2007-01-22 15:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always try starting your own family. Our immediate family is always paramount anyway.
It is a sad feeling knowing you don't have family...what is sadder is having family and not being able to communicate with them or knowing that they hate you or don't care about you. I'm kind of in this situation. It was another family member's fault but it hurts.
Again, it sounds like you really care about family. So why not start your own? And when you do, take care not to make the mistakes that many people with huge families make. Cherish it.
2007-01-22 14:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by zzzzzzzzz27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make peace with myself and love myself and understand that what has happened was not my fault. I would also live the life I was given to the fullest and start my own family and make friends and live righteously in order to have peace.
Just understand that this life is temporary and that when our time comes to reunite with our loved ones it will be a joyous occasion. Do not dwell on the past and pain it will pass. I love you as a friend.
2007-01-22 14:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got had very almost the comparable stories in the previous 2 years and that i nonetheless conflict with melancholy now. It relies upon on how previous you're for what you're able to do to assist your self, you look as in case you putting alot of religion right into a therapist, this did me no good in any respect and that i got here upon that the suitable ingredient looking after myself and searching after "style one". you are able to desire to be taught to place the irritating stories in the back of you and pass forward focusing on the positives, in case you sense you haven't any longer have been given any positives then create them. in line with danger take a seat your mum or grandparents and tell them the way you sense. do no longer shop your thoughts bottled up it is not best for you. i'm hoping you sense greater proper quickly and issues finally end up ok xXxXx
2016-12-16 15:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family isn't always your blood relatives. I know that the people who have pr oven themselves to be my family over the years are certainly not the ones I was related to. Take a good look, chances are your "family" might be right next to you.
2007-01-22 14:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find something worthwhile to do for others in their honor, and I would keep as busy as possible doing it so you don't have time to feel sorry for yourself.
I would also get some grief counseling. This is often free if you can hook up with the right program. Try HospiceCare, or check with some of the funeral homes to see what's available in your area.
2007-01-22 14:53:49 · answer #7 · answered by Rubythorne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would really hurt. It's hard for me to even imagine that let alone let it happen to me sometime soon... I sympathize for you. But if that were to happen to me... yes I would cry and be sad but life does continue. Trust me you will smile again you will laugh again. My father always tells me that when he dies he doesn’t think that we will be sad... he actually says that we will party... Crazy?Well when he first said that I wondered what daddy, you’ re crazy. But when I thought about it and then he explained it to me at a later date… he said yes we will be sad… but you will laugh again and be happy again and you will soon realize… that with our faith… we will see him again one day in heaven. It’ll be ok. They are with you. Never leaving you. They may not be here physically but mentally and emotionally… they are sitting right next to you. God Bless You! Good Luck!
2007-01-22 15:03:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mary Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry for your losses, but you don't have to be alone & without a family. Find someone to make u happy & create yourself a new family. Life must go on sweetheart.
2007-01-22 14:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God gives us sufficient grace to handle any situation in life.
2 Corinthians 5:7
We live by faith, not by sight.
2007-01-22 14:56:49 · answer #10 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋