when i was 22 i lived with my uncle right after i got married. he killed my cat my running over him and asked me to sleep with him. I told him he was crazy so me and my husband moved out. Later in life i forgave him. God is in my heart. I finally started to spend time with him again.now my husband and i have a 325.000 house. he couldnt believe how much we grew.anyways, he told my mother he wont go over my house cause its nicer than his. i went over his house today,he started to be mean again. i went to sharpen my pensil in his sick i assumed it had a garbage disposal. he said, sorry i dont have that fancy smancy like you do. dont f- sharpen you pensil in my sink. than later we went to dinner and i am in shool for ultra sound. he said i dont believe you are going to the hospital for ultra sound you are a liar. then he said oh yea if so where do you get in. you have a badge. then my husband proved him wrong. then he said i talk about my looks to much i dont even talk about it.
2007-01-22 14:41:39 · 35 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
God is in your heart, as you say.
Trials of life can be trying and it seems you are having more than your fair share but be strong, your rewards, for fighting strong in your struggle against your uncle's animosity, will be tenfold.
It is said that evil has to work harder in holier places.
You have achieved forgiveness and that is such a blessing!
For your own sake, take some distance and study some assertiveness techniques that you could put into practice with your uncle. God bless.
2007-01-22 20:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Serene 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you better get on with your life and not worry about this uncle, as just think he wanted to sleep with his neice and kills your cat, something very wrong there and now he runs you down, your uncle has a huge problem, shouldnt it be the opposite way round, and also your husband if he knows about all this wont he take action and i dont mean fighting, look at my web site http://breakingthesilence2006.com.
2007-01-22 20:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by SAMANTHA H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just plain mean and can't help themselves. You don't really need him in your life so forget about him and focus on those who actually treat you well and mean something to you. You can't force someone to stop being a jerk so it's not even worth trying and you can't force him to see you in a different light either. You have a good man, a nice house and soon to be a good career so forget about him, its not like you'll ever depend on him for anything.
2007-01-22 19:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this man is malicious to kill your cat and ask you to sleep with him i would of kicked his f***in ba**s in.Keep well away and don't give him another chance you shouldn't have give him a second anyway.And so what if you talk about your looks what has it got to do with him anyway.Does your husband no of his behaviour and have you told other family members about him.I hope you have the courage to keep away its ok to have god in your heart but when your own family member trys to sleep with you and talks to you like s**t you have to move on as he doesn't respect you at all.Take good care of yourself and all the best for the future.
2007-01-23 00:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by sweetness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy has issues, to say the least.
The best thing you can do for you is to suck the poison out of your life. Why would you want to be around someone like that? If you had kids, would you expose them to someone like that?
You don't need someone in your life who makes you feel bad about yourself, or who has nothing good to say.
Go & enjoy life & all that it has to offer.
2007-01-22 14:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time even trying to figure him out. Some people are just so consumed with evil and envy that there is nothing you can do that will ever help them, much less change them. Just get out of his life and continue doing what you're doing.
2007-01-22 14:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Nette 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's an idiot. I don't know why you gave him a second chance in the first place - he ran over your cat & asked you to sleep with him. He's your Uncle, he should never have asked you to sleep with him, that's sick. Why the hell do you bother with him. Cut your ties from him immediatley.
2007-01-22 19:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by EmmaB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you write this Question again? I believe in God too and I want to Help! But I cant understand!
2007-01-22 14:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Ali R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've no idea why he was so mean to you - probably he has issues of his own, and took it out on you. Just don't let it happen again. You are better and more special than that. Leave him and allhis crap behind and move on. good luck x
2007-01-22 16:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you tried. Now it's time to walk away again. If he wants to be a bitter jerk, that's what he's going to be. This is HIS issue, not yours! Why does he treat you badly? Because he's a bitter, jealous, self-centered jerk. You don't need that in your life. Best wishes!
2007-01-22 14:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋