When viewing a guy, how much does his looks factor in to your opinions of him as a person and/or as a possible suitor?
2007-01-22 14:19:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
My dear sir.... in asking this question you seem to be under the assumption that ladies always tell the truth.
Looks matter greatly to a strong majority of both sexes, even if they aren't always aware of it. Women sometimes, without realizing it, will be attracted to a man because of his "look" but instead intuitively feel it to be emotional instead. For example, they think they might like a guy because he is funny.... but behind that truth is the fact that they only laugh at the jokes made by attractive suitors. I am not blaming women, both genders are crazy.
However, girls also seem to have the ability to find other qualities attractive in a man other than just pure physical looks. Evolutionarily, this is probably due to the fact that women looked to men for security, social prominence, many things. So there are women who like men for looks, intellect, looks, money, looks, compassion, looks..... It varies depending upon the person and situation they are in.
Also, as people age, their hormone levels decrease and their priorities change. So women and men at different ages want and prioritize different things.
There is also the tragic theory that women, evolutionarily, pick attractive men as shortterm mates and less attractive men as longterm partners. In other words, they need to pass the good DNA to the offspring, but that is less of a factor when needing a good caretaker/provider.
2007-01-22 14:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't this belong in dating, marriage, etc.?
Looks? Well, my heart belongs to one man so I must have thought he was as good looking in behavior as he was in being physically dark and handsome (just lacked the tall, ha). Maybe I just believed he was handsome because he convinced me he thought I was the answer to his prayers and he thought I was beautiful. I would say actions factor in greatly and enhance a person's outer beauty. It's in the eyes especially. I got lost in those deep blue eyes. Anyhow, looks can be deceiving and beauty is vain and has been the downfall of many. I also think opposites attract. Ever see a really tall skinny guy go for a short chunky gal with big hips?
It's alright for a wife to say her husband's physique is the cutest (even if in reality he's not Mr. Hollywood or Mr. Universe and has love handles galore!).
Once a woman is married, she quits looking!! Say "Amen" or say "Oh me" and repent quickly if you are guilty!
2007-01-23 01:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lovin' Mary's Lamb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned it is not what a person looks like it's what is in the heart, of course, a quick glance is the first thing, but of course go on to read about him, if he's interesting, seems nice. Looks aren't that important. See if there is anything in common. Good luck!
2007-01-22 22:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Suzie- Q 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me personally they don't matter. I met my husband at 28, I was told I could do much better. He is 6 ft tall and over 300 lbs. He has tattoos and an alternative life style. I was instantly attracted to him because he has this strong magnatizem about him. His aura is beautiful. Everything that I have ever wanted in a mate, he is it.
2007-01-22 22:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Looks are what attract ladies. However it's personality that keep them around.
2007-01-23 00:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm more interested in his brain and his attitude toward life and toward me. (Though my husband's eyes and tush are very attractive!)
2007-01-22 22:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by mom of 2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
alot, just like they do to men.
2007-01-23 08:52:57 · answer #7 · answered by sandy e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋