Why did you get married--the reason besides love---???
(no violations please, love, delia)
2007-01-22 14:19:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
besides love: afraid of being alone
2007-01-22 14:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
read a book- i forget the exact name of it- but it's something like the 100 questions you should ask each other before marriage. You need to make sure you have the same goals and views. Do you want children? How many? How will you disciplin them? will you co-sleep with them? will you go back to work after having them? will one of you stay at home? What is your view of what home will be? what if it's messy? how do you feel house work should be divided? is one person responsible for cooking meals? how do you budget your finances? If you aren't able to concieve a child do you want to adopt? How do you want to divide holidays? What holidays will you spend with what families every year? How will you divide this up when you have children and both families want holidays with your family? just think- most people never get past "do you want kids?" well that's great and all- but if you envision a family with 5 kids- and his vision of your family is 1 child- that will cause a HUGE problem later on- also so will your views on parenting.. especially when you bring home an infant. Best of luck! etc etc.... it's an excellent book- and covers all the bases. things you think arent important now- but surprisingly they become HUGE ISSUES in the future (especially the aspects of raising children)
2016-03-28 22:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I may complain; I cannot imagine myself with any woman more perfect for me. She is loving, caring, understanding, forgiving, giving, supportive, nurturing, etc., and I cannot begin to tell you all the positive things about her. She is my wife, my lover, my BEST FRIEND. I could spend the rest of my life looking for someone who is compatible and not find them. God put her in my life at the right moment in time and I cannot imagine the things he has in store for us. When I first met her, it was God saying to me, get up and meet the woman I have set aside for you. Is she perfect? No. But she is perfect for me in every way. I cannot imagine myself being with anyone more suited for me.
2007-01-22 14:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by 4kids2pay4 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thought of having someone that you can always call and someone who will be there. I guess you could say I am a comfort level with him that I wouldn't want to find with someone else.
2007-01-22 14:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by Charitie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married twice..divorced twice..I don't know what the hell i was thinking.. today.. I find no reason for it. I don't need a piece of paper to be happy
2007-01-22 14:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is my best friend, we have so much fun together. I knew he would take very good care of me and would be a great father. Above all he is trustworthy.
2007-01-22 14:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by iluvafrica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause it physically hurt when I was away from my future wife. I couldn't imagine my happiness without her.
2007-01-22 14:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't think of any , other than love ......but I can think of lots of reasons I want a divorce...lol......
2007-01-22 14:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by Mary Mary Jane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say give 4kids2pay the points. wow to have your man speak of you like that. how nice
2007-01-22 15:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is my best friend, he tolerates me more than my parents ever did, he loves my cats and can belch his ABC's...can't live without him (can't kill him either...)
2007-01-22 14:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by nyhtshade 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋